09-20-2007, 05:10 AM
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Sex hurt bad afterwards - Ouchie!
ok my bf n i had sex yesterday. we were kinda really really desperate so it was a lil rough n he thrusted kinda hard into me. it didnt hurt while he was doing it and i did enjoy it, but after he was finished something inside was hurting BAD! it felt something like period cramps, like some gripping pain, somewhere inside between the triangle of pubic hair and my belly button. i drank some water, while he massaged it gently and i fell asleep eventually. after about half an hour the pain disappeared, and i havent heard from it since.
can anyone tell me what that was all about? did he like hit my cervix hard or injure something inside? is it something that will go away soon or should i avoid it again? 
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09-20-2007, 07:50 AM
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Sounds as if you may have had a full bladder? Maybe a bladder spasm?
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09-20-2007, 10:53 AM
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the feeling of "period cramps" usually means he's hitting your cervix. that happened to me when i first started having sex, thought not that bad...
it could be that you aren't aroused enough, because the cervix ascends when you are arounsed to make room for the penis (unless your boyfriend has a longer than average penis)
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09-21-2007, 08:00 AM
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He was hitting your cervix, and you were not sufficiently aroused.
People, there is a reason for FOREPLAY! If he had time to massage your abdomen afterward, then he had time to do foreplay, dammit!
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09-21-2007, 09:56 AM
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evilevil, i must say you have a damn fine sense of humour... hehe
but youre right... thing is we did have a lot of foreplay then we were interrupted by a phone call during which i think i lost the 'zing' a lil... n we were kinda too desperate after and, well you know... still, thanks, you REALLY made a point abt the importance of foreplay....
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09-21-2007, 10:24 PM
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Yes, well, thank you but seriously, one does have to FOCUS on the sex when one has the opportunity to engage in sex. Turn off the phone or let them leave a message! And tell your man to leave your cervix alone! He's supposed to go under the cervix, not on it or above it. And that's only after you've had at least two orgasms. Guys, warm the lady up, give her a few appetizers and then go for the entree', capice?
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