best sex receipe?

[fire949]

After six months I will be having sex with my gf soon,
just curious about the right protocal or the best receipie out there...
the only ideas i have is from the porn...

foreplay: 15 min?
oral on him: 15 min?
oral on her: 30 min?
sex 30 min?

is this right format? pl. advise...
thank you in advance

[oedipussy]

Sure, just add a facial at the end and a pizza delivery guy or two and you've got the perfect love-making session...

Ideas from porn? No sir, that's not the way to go. Sex is about doing what comes naturally, not following some preplanned course of "this, then that, and finally this.." And just what were you planning on doing - bringing out the egg timer? Forget about how long each activity should last - honestly, seeing as this will probably be your first time having sex with anyone, your estimates might be a bit too optimistic to say the least. Just go with the flow, and if it feels right, do it. Try not to think too much and let yourself enjoy it.

[dancingdoc2]

> is this right format? pl. advise...
> the only ideas i have is from the porn...

No, not even close, not even for a Quicky!

> foreplay: 15 min?
oral on him: 15 min?
oral on her: 30 min?
sex 30 min?

Although you are new to the SI101 Board and Forums, I would have hoped you had read through the Index and Board Notices. The Index directs you to various articles that answer your questions and concerns. At least a couple of recent threads do, also.

Now, here's the game plan, or at least one of many:

Devote no less that half an hour to making out, longer within reason if possible. Necking, Petting, Heavy Petting, all precede FOREPLAY.

There are three things wrong with your time frames: first, do not be a clock watcher; second, the times however long, are what they are. Do not block them out; three, making out in all of its various forms should be inclusive which means beginning with A, moving to B, adding C then revisiting A&B, etc. This blending, mixing, and progression of caresses, adds variety (and spice! ), and eliminates the need for blocking out so much time for this and that. What matters is how each of you respond and react to each other's kisses and caresses. This determines when to move on and by what path.

X-rated videos can be helpful for providing ideas, so what you have been doing is OK as far as you have gone. Now, please go and read the articles and learn how to be a great lover. In addition, go pick up a copy of "The Joy of Sex" from your local bookseller. Make sure it is the latest edition as the book has been rewritten several times over the years in order to maintain its being up to date.

I hope this is of help. If you have questions or concerns, please feel free to ask--after you do some reading on here.

-doc

[tommy_tucker]

for my first time the foreplay lasted nearly 2 hours, and that was before oral. just take your time and do what feels good.

[Ducy]

take your time...and dont expect anything....dont expect oral.....dont expect to do or recieve anything....just go with the flow....I mean we do kinda have a couple thousand (if not million) years of instinct fueling us. do you think cave men planned out sex? NO

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by tommy_tucker

for my first time the foreplay lasted nearly 2 hours, and that was before oral. just take your time and do what feels good.

Hey Tommy,
What went on for two hours w/o oral? A continuous hand job? Man, talk about staying power!

[tommy_tucker]

it wasnt just one hand job it was hugging and kissing. if i could last 2 hours with out cumming i think she would leave me. but take your time, espically if you are both virgins because you will want it to be special.

[orodel]

Making out for 30 minutes? I have always been worried that maybe my girlfriend was growing board with making out after awhile (she never said so or really showed signs of it) Do most girls really want to make out this long before moving further?

[DruityLoops]

there isnt a recipe. you dont have foreplay for fifteen minutes then go oh its time to have sex now.

[dancingdoc2]

> Making out for 30 minutes? I have always been worried that maybe my girlfriend was growing board with making out after awhile

> Do most girls really want to make out this long before moving further?

Once again, please read the Posting Guidelines and the Index in the Board Notices that is placed right at the top of your Main screen when you log in. It's right up top and in plain view for a reason--to give answers quickly and completely without having to post questions and wait for replies.

> (she never said so or really showed signs of it)

More than likely if she is enjoying this as much as you are. Yes, because it takes the female of the species much longer to become aroused and ready for an orgasm than the typical male. For more on all this, and much more, please read the Index. Several of us have devoted a lot of time to prepare the Sticky articles found at the top of most of the Forums. They are there for a purpose, one of which is for the convenience of you and others.