First Time, Age and Experiance

[bboy01]

Hey, I'm relatively new here, been touring the forum for a while and just thought I would finally register.

I'm 16 and still a virgin, I was wondering who else is still a virgin, what age are you and if your not a virgin, what age were you when you first had sex and do you wish you had waited for "the right person" or is that just a load of rubbish?

[sera300]

I was 14, never regretted the choice and was happy to be done with it; this was nearly 30 years ago. Waiting for "someone" or "saving yourself" is a personal choice but in my opinion this mentality is grossly over rated.

[bboy01]

Im not really saving myself, I just havent had the chance and as time goes on, it gets harder, I'm going on holiday soon, I'm planning on trying my luck over there, see what happens, if it goes wrong, I'm coming back in 2 weeks so it should be fine lol :P

[eminatic]

i was 19 when i lost mine...although i was anxious to lose it at the time, looking back i might not have been ready. however i am glad that i chose the right person. its kind of hard to explain...throughout highschool i would meet guys and think "i'd probably have sex with them...but i don't want to lose my virginity to them." lol

i wasn't really saving myself for the person i'd spend the rest of my life with...just...someone who it felt right to lose it to...if that makes any sense lol

[Ephemera]

I think it's pretty important that you care for the person you lose it to. I don't think it has to be the "right" person necessarily, and definitely not the person you'll be spending the rest of your life with.

Gotta be someone you'll feel good about, though.

I lost it about a month ago. I'm seventeen. I care very deeply about the girl, so I have absolutely no regrets.

[bboy01]

Yea eminatic I understand, like you found them attractive enough to have sex but didnt feel enough for them for it to be your first time..

I dont really worry about never going to happen because realisticly, it obviously will, I just worry that by the time it does I'll do something wrong and be humiliated, but how hard can it be?

[sera300]

Condoms, spermicide, birth control pills...etc. Don't need to be called Daddy yet!

[bboy01]

Isnt a condom and the pill enough?

[sera300]

Originally Posted by bboy01

Isnt a condom and the pill enough?

If used properly (condom) and taken as directed (pill), yes.

[Ephemera]

Just be careful, and if you're unsure if there was a problem get a morning after pill or some pregnancy tests.

It's the not knowing that kills you. It's scary, actually.