HELP! S/He is more EXPERIENCED! To which I say:

[dancingdoc2]

Please scroll down and read the chapter by the same title near the end of this thread

A person's previous "Experience" is a topic of frequent concern to many posters and because it is I am giving the topic a second albeit distinct link to the information that is posted in another Sticky thread that covers this subject and several related matters in separate chapters.

[lustforlove]

i was really scared that my boyfriend would get scared when we first started having sex because i have had it once before and he was still a virgin, i may as well has been a virgin though because the first time i had had sex was a complete mistake with an utter moron and i just spent the entire time laid on my back whilst he did his thing, my current boyfriend did find it fairly intimidating to start with and thought that whatever he did i wouldnt be pleasured i calmed him down and told him exsactly what all my other experience was, that not being much and now we are bothe learning together we still have alot to learn but we are getting there

[7inches4u]

when i lost my virginity, the girl i was with was not a virgin, though we were in a serious relationship. ill be honest-it didnt go too well. i lasted about 2 minutes but she was great about it, and after another couple somewhat awkward encounters, we started having a solid sex life.
girls, keep in mind that us guys are just as nervous the first time as you. perhaps more so, because the performance anxiety factor is definitely a bigger factor for us. a couple of my friends couldn't even get it up when they went to do it the first time (so ive been told; im also told this is not uncommon). our first time, we feel the pressing need to be ron jeremy. also, if you're not a virgin and he is, he's going to feel pressure to measure up, which will make the performance anxiety worse.
guys, just relax. seriously. she's not expecting multiple mind-blowing orgasms from you the first time you have intercourse. be honest with her. its ok that she knows you're nervous. you will be pleasantly surprised, amazed even, at how understanding and supportive girls can be, especially if you're in a comitted relationship. i know my girl was. if you have issues the first few times, dont worry, its totally natural

[Paradox_Mc]

i was a vergin when i met my girlfriend she understood that and we took it slow but now im a horny rabbit, im still new to sex but with her i know i can take it at my pace without being ashamed if im doing it wrong, if i am she will tell me, i have made her orgasim a few times but i need to last longer, she said to masterbait earlyer in the day so when we go to bed i last much longer and it dose work

[Lioness]

i have had sex once before, and it didnt go well at all! Now im with a new partner whos a virgin. i'm worried he will be apperhensive because i have so called 'experiance' but the truth is i really dont. Just cause i have done it, doesnt mean i know anymore.
I think specially in mid teens (16-17) virginity is bliss.
cause then you can learn together.

[tim107]

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[dancingdoc2]

How do you tell him what, that you are a virgin, that you are not? Either way, you do not have to tell him. The past is your past. If he happens to ask, be truthful.

[cyclefreak]

Well, the first time I had sex, it was with a woman who was far more experienced than I was, and I told her I was a virgin beforehand. The next time I had sex, it was with a different woman, and I didn't tell her that it was only my second time. She didn't notice that I was relatively inexperienced.

I think people make too much of this thing where one person has more experience than the other. Now that I'm experienced, if I was to have sex with a woman who told me she was a virgin, I think I'd be the one who'd be nervous. I'd be too concerned about doing everything right for her first time.

[notAproblem]

Well I was a virgin when i met my boyfriend. He was way more experience than me. I was scared at first b/c that is what every other guy I dated wanted and I wouldn't give in. But I finally gave in after several months. Were still together to this days and he wanted to marry me, he says. Anyhow, I still wonder if I am pleasing him he says I have been the best so far but I don't know what to believe. Hes says none of the other girls hes been when didn't mean ****, they were just there...After all hes my first and suposally I'm is last. In a guys opinion should I believe him or not?

[Ducy]

Ummm...well I mean it is tricky. A solid relationship is based upon trust, so you should trust him.

Then again, there is a slim chance that he is saying it so you wont be discouraged.