For Men and Women Only- Breasts and Play

[devrog]

my gf loves it when I suck on her nipples. She likes when I massage her breast gently too. She likes me to squeeze both her breast and suck hard on her nipples when she is about to orgasm

[tmps]

my man always makes sure he is paying attention to BOTH boobs, he is usually sucking one and holding the other

[springtimeflower]

I have also sometimes out of nowhere gotten the "creeps" about my husband (boyfriend at the time) playing with my DD breasts because of the breastfeeding thing. I would freak out thinking what if I was breastfeeding my future children and all of the sudden I got turned on. I'm not sure where that thought came from. Your fiance is not a "freak" as you say or at least if she is I am a "freak" as well.
The up side to my story now though is that after breastfeeding 2 children I very much enjoy him playing with my breasts.

Originally Posted by mr flibble

My fiance has fantasticly large, natural breasts... and she doesn't like me touching them full stop. She says that in her mind, they only have one purpose (breast feeding), and that it creeps her out! I don't think she realises how frustrating this is. Every time I go near them she grabs my hand and pulls it away. If I do manage to get near them it makes her shudder and squirm (but not in a good way!)

Is she some sort of freak? Or is this more common?

[Mpk]

My gf is very self conctious, even though she is size 6/8 and has a very nice body. I've been going out with her for a long time now, we have had sex and we care very much for each other.

However, she "hates" her boobs, i personally don't care about size, although they are small i really don't mind, but she sometimes doesn't even let me look at them, even during sex! i've told her so many times i think they are perfect, i love every part of her body. Although gradually she is minding less, she won't let me see her vagina either, even though we;ve already had sex...

what can i do to make her realise i love all of her body and she has no reason to "hate" it?

[sera300]

She has to come to the realization herself, nothing you can do about it. It's her own issue of insecurity.

[Evian]

I sometimes think it's weird when a guy sucks a girl's nipples. I mean, I find it arousing, but at times it weirds me out. Like a baby sucks on nipples, but that wouldn't be arousing I hope!

[LangstonW]

do boobs always turn harder when girls are turned on?

[demonbuttercup]

I am just the opposite in that I would freak out about breast feeding b/c boobs are sexual LOL.
That's why I doubt I would breast feed. I don't want to ruin a good thing!

I know I ask Brandye about this one time and she said yes some women get this mentality of that boobs are for feeding babies... but really only after they have a baby and are breast feeding...not really before hand.

[Brandye]

There are those women who can go no farther wwithout breast play; there are women whose turn on is ended by breast play. Doc's tips are good for a starter but those women who do not want their breasts played just plain do not want it. End of process. Those women who have a great need (such as I) for breast play, just plain need it and usually have strong preferences.

The couple involved must work it out.

[digger10]

for the ones that dont know the gentleness of caressing a womans breast and the chance of maybe geting milk from her,key word is gentleness,tongue and soft suction works wonders, i have had women tell me i would be drinking if theres was,and would let me if she had milk in there.