Still A Virgin. Arrgh!

[25 Year Old Virgin]

So how do you get women to want to sleep with you instead of just wanting to be friends?

[sexywhore]

Dont do co-ordinated dance routines with ur female friends when u go out...

girls will assume you're either: gay


or

Shaggin said female friend and creating dance moves is part of your foreplay...

[Lovesdesire]

go get drunk as it solves the confidence issues
then go up to any girl u think hot and chat to em
they'll be flattered as most girls are :P
unless there big headed prats and then it works out better if u don't get with em
try not to waste it tho as u will end up regretting it
i lost mine to my current gf
like a fool i thought getting rid of it as fast as possible, not a good thing
we rushed into it
so take it slow and try not to waste it on the first girl waggling her tits infront of ur face.

good luck and happy hunting my friend!

[EvilEvilKitten]

Okay so you're the 'friend' are you? Well, stop letting women cry on your shoulder, stop accepting the 'lets just be friends' arguement by saying "No thank you - I wanted to be closer than just friends." Be confident, be tough, and talk to as many women as possible. Sport date.

[Old Kid]

Tell em " If all I wanted was companionship, I'd buy a dog"

[NizeGie]

Some ideas:

- Be rich.

- Complicate; be evil; be loose.

- Wear a T-shirt with an arrow pointing to the side and the legend "I'm with Sexy."

- Be too sexy for that shirt.

- Get a dog. Really. Chicks dig dogs. And then they'll know that you already have a companion.

- Getting really drunk does solve the confidence problem, but creates the acting-like-an-idiot problem, which (once your supposed "friends" give you the details the next day) will create an entirely new and slightly different confidence problem. On the other hand, if we take your goal literally ("sleep with" a girl), getting sufficiently drunk actually works, but only if, by "with," you mean "on the bathroom floor of."

- Be a rock star.

- Oh yeah, another one: realize that there probably already are women who want to sleep with you ... but you don't want to sleep with them. Change that second part.

[Sadfase]

Ahh my best friend IRL has the same problem. He thought joining a frat would help but it doesn't. JUST an FYI

Most of my friends are girls but I gotta say that actually helps. They tell me what to do and it works. LOL Not so much recently last year I couldn't get a relationship to last moar than a month and some change let alone get the chance to actually get the slim chance to perform the sexual act.

My advice to you? Get active in some kind of public activity. I have school now so that helps cos I know girls with the same major as me at least share a common interest. So maybe book clubs? Bar scenes? Women at work?

Plus don't come off as desperate or depraved. If the topic comes up just say you're waiting for the right woman. Course they might think that's a line. heh.

Honestly I can't believe i'm not a virgin. I'm a huge insecure dorkus.
Above all though
Confidence Confidence Confidence

[NizeGie]

A quick mental review of how I met the various women I've slept with reveals:

About half at a party
About a third through mutual friends
The rest other ways, such as: school, work, a bar

In some of the party cases, mutual friends/acquaintances may have been involved. But generally, I wouldn't have met them absent the party.

So:
1 Go to parties.
2 Make friends.

[cjb1981]

The worst thing that you could possibly do, is try to be something that you aren't. Chicks can see through that, and besides, how long can you really keep that up? The only thing that you need to do differently, is let her know right off the bat, that you aren't interested in "just being friends". Let her know that you are interested sexually. Putting on a macho persona won't help you, it'll just make you look like an ass!!! Trust me.

[b-donk boy]

I used to always be the friend, trust me. I just showed them that i wanted to be more than a friend. Give him/her a kiss, show them that you want more than a friendship. Good things come to those who wait.