How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?

[sania]

You are sexy doc. What a nice sharing of experience.

[BeeHappy]

this could sound strange - but my boyfriend hardly ever lets me finish a hand job. He always says it will be too messy. Even if it's true - it makes me feel like i'm rubbish. Any tips to make him not want me to stop?

[dancingdoc2]

> this could sound strange - but my boyfriend hardly ever lets me finish a hand job. He always says it will be too messy.

Interesting.... How does he react when you do cause him to make a "mess"?

Is he fastidious in other areas of his life?

Now for the BIG question: how does he handle the situation when he masturbates? In other words, what does he do with his ejaculation upon climaxing?

If he has not hangups about masturbating, then why not just do it his way?

It really sounds to me like there is something else going on that is bugging him. Talk to him and see what you can learn.

> Even if it's true - it makes me feel like i'm rubbish. Any tips to make him not want me to stop?

Other than the above? Get him very highly aroused in other ways, including building his level of arousal and excitement to the brink of an orgasm either by hand/mouth/ or better--both. Pause your actions before he climaxes, and let his sense of urgency subside, then rebuild it and repeat. On the third time, do not stop! If necessary, use a lube and work on his Frenulum or any of his hotspots around the Corona Rim if you know where these are. Stimulating his Frenulem will cause him to climax in a N.Y. min., or less.

If you do not mind letting him climax in your mouth then do so as above, and then desposit the semen into a tissue or washcloth.

If he really balks at having his ejaculate land on his skin, your body, or in your mouth, then get an empty small jar like marinated artichoke hearts come in. You can use the jar to collect his semen as it is ejaculated AND the rim can be used to rub against the Frenulum to bring about his climax.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?