Confused and Need advice.

[qazqazqaz]

Hello all ive been a lurker here for a month or two now and the advice people have given is quite sound, from most people. im in gr.12, i moved out with my family to a smaller town and ended up going to a catholic high school its not very big.

now when i got there the students followed mostly what they taught about sex ed, dont have sex its a sin ect... but my problem started in this class, now my parents have been open with sex with me since i was young, i asked a question they answered to an appropraite level at the age. So i knew more about sex then most of the kids who just learned at school.

My probelm is that i started to see this one girl, and after a few weeks she asked me a question about female orgasms, and what they felt like, one thing led to another and i went down on her, she finished and told her friends. we broke up and a month later i went out with one of her frieds (stupid me) same thing happened she wanted to know what it felt like, i gave he a massage and she finished from that. she then told her group what happened and more and more girls paid attention to me, ive always been a loner, and this was my way to get attention and accepted. Except all the guys didnt like the new guy getting attention, so none of them will talk to me, then all of a sudden the girls just want to pass me around. Only one guy ever asked me what i did, he didnt belive in that...

Is this just going to blow over eventualy or should i just change schools, should have my g2 soon and i can prolly and up going to the public school thats 30minutes away, or is this anti-sex thing taught alot in small towns?. and i still dont see why the guys say im a woman for going down on a girl and its unmanly.

[Talie]

Going down on a woman is not 'unmanly' as you say. Maybe they are just jealous.

[qazqazqaz]

Thanks, Talie, your words help alot.

the worst part is im starting to miss the big city, 200 kids in a school vs 1200 kids. things tend to go away faster in the city.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Look at it this way - at least their wives had one orgasm in their lives.
Of course the girls are going to pass you around! We share good things with our friends! Congrats - most guys would be happy to change places with you.