im the opposite of most guys!

[x3ro]

Ok, so i just started having sex, and every time i get the same exact results, Ill last about 40 minutes, then i go completly limp, then after about 10-20 minutes of lying around, and some more foreplay ill be ready to go again, but this time i last for about 10-20 minutes ending with an ejaculation.

This is kinda anoying, isnt it more common for a guy to last a short time the first go round, then last a longer time? I really dont have that much of a problem with it, because its enjoyable and she enjoys it, but its extremly tireing for both of us. She'll orgasam 3-4 times during everything and i just end up tired! and like today, we didnt have time to go at it for 2hrs, so i got hung out to dry! which isnt plesent at all!

[thetease13]

Generally, at least in uncircumcised guys, guys tend to last longer the second time around than the first.
The first go around is like a "new sensation" and the second time, you're more used to it and the feel and are able to last longer.

[x3ro]

well, i seem to be the reverse, but i think im getting the hang of it, i realized that i can only finish if im really concentrating on it and trying to.

[DMC87]

That is rather different, ok this is a long shot but I can think of 2 reasons this happens:

1) You're actually gay and in denial (if you're sure this is wrong then ignore it)

2) You have spent many years masturbating incorrectly (i.e. you lye prone when you masturbate)

If it's neither of these then sorry, but its some useless trivia for later.

[demonbuttercup]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (DMC87 @ April 08 2005,11:59)]1) You're actually gay and in denial (if you're sure this is wrong then ignore it)

LOL
Where did that come from??

[DMC87]

Its based on the psychological idea that he finds his partner doesn't turn him on, thus he finds it harder to finish.

Maybe you should try more foreplay?

[x3ro]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (DMC87 @ April 08 2005,11:59)]That is rather different, ok this is a long shot but I can think of 2 reasons this happens:

1) You're actually gay and in denial (if you're sure this is wrong then ignore it)

2) You have spent many years masturbating incorrectly (i.e. you lye prone when you masturbate)

If it's neither of these then sorry, but its some useless trivia for later.

yep thats it, you figured me out...im gay.
i dont know how i can break it to her

lol.

Man, how much would that suck? first sexual partener and one of you turns out to be gay. I can even imagine how crushing that would be!

and just to be clear, im sure im not gay. my "problem" is becoming less and less of a problem now, i think i was just getting used to things.

[mmparks]

LMFAO!!!! Damn, youre a good sport!


I bet its like others said, a matter of getting into the routine of things. Practice makes perfect!! Practice a LOT :P


(STILL chuckling)

[x3ro]

Im comfortable enough with my sexuality to joke about being gay, I dont have a problem with homosexuals, i have a few freinds that are gay, I know im not and i really dont care if someone thinks i am or something to that effect.

Anyway, as far as "practice makes perfect" I just wish learning to play that Basson back in middle school was so enjoyable, Id be the fuckin man at playing a Basson if i practiced this much!

[mmparks]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (x3ro @ April 12 2005,22:58)]Im comfortable enough with my sexuality to joke about being gay, I dont have a problem with homosexuals, i have a few freinds that are gay, I know im not and i really dont care if someone thinks i am or something to that effect.

Anyway, as far as "practice makes perfect" *I just wish learning to play that Basson back in middle school was so enjoyable, *Id be the fuckin man at playing a Basson if i practiced this much!

LMFAO!!!! Youre pretty funny :P You played the Basson?? No wonder youre tough skinned



Honestly though.. just give it time and I bet things will be great!