She says it all Feels the same....

[lostinitall]

I love having sex with my girlfriend, but it seems that during sex I can't get her off by just having sex. She says she likes having sex, but it doesn't really do anything for her. I find this disapointing and I turn to my size for answers. I'm a little over 5 inches and my girth is around 3 inches. Definitely not a big penis. Do you think this could be the problem? I love giving it to her from behind, but she says that feels the same as every other position and she says the same about the sex. If my size is an issue. Do the penis enlargement products really work. I've narrowed it down to two pill brands Pro Solutions and Size Pro, but I'm reluctant because I don't know if the pills even work. I'm really worked up about this. Please help.

[thetease13]

Take a nice deep breath. It's more than likely *not* your size.

A lot (and by a lot I mean a lot) of women do not get off on just sex. Our most sensitive part down there is our clit. It is not located inside of us, and so most of us can't get off on sex alone.

So my suggestion is while you're doing that, try rubbing her clit at the same time and that will increase the sexual experience for her.

[kulaschula911]

I'm not an expert at things (I'm quite new to sex) but from my experience, a lack of orgasm during sex has *very* little to do about the size of the penis that I'm riding. Its the way a man uses what he's got.
I really strongly suggest you don't get fixated on something that, in my opinion, sounds like a perfectly average size anyway.

Forget the pills, and instead try to really heat things up for your girl. If you're not already doing it, stimulate her clit during sex, and get her into possitions where you can penetrate her as deeply as possible (like when she's on her back with her legs around your neck- it feels amazing). As for rear entry, it feels twice as nice standing and leaning on a wall with legs pretty much closed.

[lostinitall]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (kulaschula911 @ Feb. 10 2005,13:33)]"...a lack of orgasm during sex has *very* little to do about the size of the penis that I'm riding. Its the way a man uses what he's got.
...sounds like a perfectly average size anyway.

...get her into possitions where you can penetrate her as deeply as possible (like when she's on her back with her legs around your neck- it feels amazing). As for rear entry, it feels twice as nice standing and leaning on a wall with legs pretty much closed."

So, what positions would you recommend for me to really stimulate her?

It drives me wild when I get in a rhythm and she starts to make the little girlie pleasure moan "Unh...unh..". I want to bring sex to a whole new level with her.

I want her to enjoy sex as much as I do.

[lostinitall]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (kulaschula911 @ Feb. 10 2005,13:33)]...sounds like a perfectly average size anyway.

Forget the pills....

Has anyone out there had an experience with some sort of PE such as pills or exercise/massage techniques. I think it might help my sexual confidence if I did invest, besides if I could increase my size to about 6.5-7.5 in length and increase my girth as well. Wouldn't that just help our sex life? I talked it over with her and she agreed to stay active with me while I was doing the things so that we would know when to stop. I wouldn't want to get too big and end up hurting our sex lives. It may not be too big for someone else, but it may be too big for her...you know?

So just for the record what would be the ideal penis for you or in my case what would you say the girth should be if the length ended up being between 6.5 and 7.5?

Thanks.

[lostinitall]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (thetease13 @ Feb. 10 2005,13:08)]A lot (and by a lot I mean a lot) of women do not get off on just sex. *Our most sensitive part down there is our clit. *It is not located inside of us, and so most of us can't get off on sex alone.

So my suggestion is while you're doing that, try rubbing her clit at the same time and that will increase the sexual experience for her.

Is there any particular angles or positions that would increase the overall stimulation during sex? Or are there any reccomendations for foreplay to increase the vaginal sensitivity? I'm a guy, I don't know what feels nice. All I know is that I stick it in and keep going. With that in mind...any advice?


Thanks...

[demonbuttercup]

Well missionary doesn't really do much for me b/c Im the type that does have to have some sort of clitoral stimulation whether from myself or him.
If Im on top, the clit seems to get more direct contact...hands free.
Some other positions like doggy allow me to stimulate myself. One of my favs is when I lie down on my back w/ my bum on the edge of the bed. He stands beside the bed and enters that way. Kinda like missionary but Im able to rub myself and for me it feels a lot better.
Spoon is good too b/c you can rub her boobs and clit as well.

[lostinitall]

One thing I have noticed is that if I push her legs too close together to make it tighter she complains that it hurts. But when I do it like that it feels really good. I don't know if the fact that she was a virgin before me has anything to do with it or not. We have been having sex for about 6 months so i'm sure her hymen has been stretched/torn.

She also likes to sit on top of me and move forward and back rather than up and down, which does feel pretty good, but it takes the risk of popping me out and that really hurts..especially when she gets going pretty fast. I want to get deep penetration because it makes me feel like i'm doing more.

What about some of the feminine sensitivity creams...has anyone used them or tried them in conjunction with a condom as some of them have oils in them? Let me know what you think. Thanks...

[thetease13]

As demon said, her on top would probably allow best for her to stimulate the clit at the same time.

You can do doggie, it allows you to go deeper and you, or her, can manually stimulate her clit in this position.

And oral is always a nice foreplay.
Mmmhmm....

[demonbuttercup]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (lostinitall @ Feb. 10 2005,14:34)]She also likes to sit on top of me and move forward and back rather than up and down, which does feel pretty good, but it takes the risk of popping me out and that really hurts..especially when she gets going pretty fast. I want to get deep penetration because it makes me feel like i'm doing more.

The clit stimulation is really what she is getting in combination w/ the penetration, which is the best. The whole popping out thing just comes w/ practice. It still happens to my b/f and I every once in awhile, but I can usually judge pretty well on my part.
So you want to get deeper penetration because THAT feels better for you? or you think that's what feels better for her? or something else?
Women don't necessarily need it deep. All the "feel good" nerve endings are right at the entrace to the vagina. Thats why when it comes to size, girth is more important usually than length. I personally don't like it TOOO deep. Some deep is good tho.