She's fast !

[Ashes]

It's just a small issue with my girlfriend. She told me a few times that'd she want me to undress her and that she usually does it because I'm not making any moves.

Well, I'm not shy, not at all and most of the times she's actually the one blushing so that's not the issue. The problem is I she just wanna skip the kisses, the fondling and the undressing. It's like it only begins for her once we're naked. A shame really.

Well, she might like going fast like this but I don't. I was wondering how you dealt with similar issues because I'm sure it's not because my timing's bad. How am I to find a good compromise ? These things don't really have a timer on like "Ok, after 5 minutes of kissing, initate phase 2 of the undressing".

Thank you in advance for any replies.

[vagabondprince]

is there something wrong with being naked?

just talking to her, saying you'd like the nakedness to simply come with the flow of things might work. i personally would try to embrace the nakedness. isn't like there's much difference between being dressed and being naked anyway, clothes are just protection from the elements

[Ashes]

Actually, I do mind complete nakeness. I just enjoy seeing her strip while she gives me a seductive look and winks. Besides, I do believe a girl in underwear is sexier than just a plainly naked girl. I mean, plain nakedness just makes me remember my biology classes and sex ed books while a girl in a top and thong or wearing lingerie is an invitation to arousal. I know it's not the same with everybody but that's my preference.

[oberon]

Have you talked to her about this? Try telling her how you feel. Relationships are made up of compromises... and the only way to reach a compromise is to talk it out. Tell her what you like and see what she says. If nothing else, maybe half the time you can get a sexy striptease and half the time you can get right to it.

[lilly2279]

Try this bit of teasing foreplay...

While she has her panties and bra on, make her lie down and kiss her all over, licks and bites, etc... when you get down to her Thong, perform oral through her panties - totally tease the hell out of her through the panties, licking, tickling, nibbling, pulling them aside just every so often to give her a taste of the real thing... then move it back to tease.

Hopefully she will enjoy that and you'll enjoy having fun with some clothes on!

[Greendale]

If you don't like fast girls, then dump her ass and find the one that is right for you. I dislike fast girls myself. When you know she's a fast girl, then you know she's a troublemaker if you know what I mean.

[jsr2701]

good idea lilly! i already do that with my gf and she loves it. very teasing hehehehe

[demonbuttercup]

Thats a little harsh GD. Its not like she's getting "fast" and furious w/ every guy she meets. She just needs to slow things down w/ her guy.
Maybe do some roleplay or blindfolding. Blindfold her that way she can't do anything and YOU have to be the one who takes her clothes off and keeps the pace.

[sEFONE512]

DUDE DO IT HAVE FUN WHY NOT? IVE HAD MANY FAST GIRLS IN THE PASS 7 MONTHS DUE TO THE FACT THAT I JUST LOST IT 7 MONTHS AGO. WHEN GIRLS ARE FAST JUST MEANS THAT THEY LOVE SEX THIS IS NOTHING BAD JUST EXPERIENCE WHAT U SEE AND IF U DONT LIKE WELL THEN I DUNNO WHAT TO TELL YOU

[Purrson]

you dont dump her! you just compromise, as lilly said or like do some teasing.. hopefully she will like it, and then possible slow down cause she knows its still possible to have fun with her clothes on, hehe

and hey, communication is everything