takes forever

[tripper]

ok well im 18 and my gf is also... we have been together a year and started having sex about 2 weeks ago.. we aren't having any problems really, she's getting off and goes for about 45 min..

my problem is I do not get off from it, she was a virgin but we have done it 10 or so times since then... i had sex twice before her... and got off both those times.. its just with the current i cant see to go, ill go for like an hour or so and not even feel close to an orgasm.. now this is making my girl feel that she is bad... but we try different positions.. all that feel good but just dont get me off...

im also finding with oral even now.. its taking a LOT longer than usual.. from 10-15 to about 25-30

i feel bad to say ive started to become a little less attracted to her over the past month and this may have something to do with it.. im not sure

help!

[demonbuttercup]

this link should help.

[oberon]

Demonbuttercup's link may help. I would also say a lack of attraction might have a lot to do with it. It may be your body's reaction to your subconscious desire not to be with this girl. If you work out your feelings maybe the problem will disappear.