Does it matter if she comes?

[paulkariya13]

Ok, I am a little scared here, cause I don't know if my g/f is pregnant or not. It's been a few days after she normally gets her period, and it hasn't arrived yet. She is almost always on time, if not early. Our sex life isn't that great, as I can never get her to actually have an orgasm. So my question is, can a girl get pregnant when she doesn't have an orgasm? We use condoms, and it has never broken, and I don't really think there were any holes in the condom for the sperm to leak out of, if that is even possible. She has been really stressed lately, but her possibly being pregnant is a big part of that. What should we do?

[Chryseis]

Yes, it is very possible for a girl to get pregnant without having an orgasm. All that needs to happen is for one sperm to find its way out of the condom..

And yes, it is possible for condoms to have holes for sperm to leak out of.

If you were using protection, you're probably fine, and if you give it a little while her period may still come. If not, get a pregnancy test or see a doctor.

[LittleFury]

Well, there is a slight possibily that she might be pregant. Condoms are not 100% proof, however they are a good method of protection. Also, a girl doesn't have to come to get pregnant. However, you say that she was stressed, a lot times that can makie a period late. You ask what you shoud do, I would say go tot he store and pick up a pregnancy test, Take it, and if it comes out negative and period comes a bit after that, then don't worry. However if it's possitive, whihc I don't really think would hapen, then go to the doctor. Also, if her period doesn't come 2 months in the row, have her see a doc, cause that could indicate that something is wrong.

[oberon]

First let me say I am just so happy and thankful that you are using condoms. That may seem like a strange opening, but if you look around on here you'll discover a lot of people who don't.

The advice so far has been great. Stress can cause a woman to have irregular periods or even to skip one. And condoms aren't 100%. I think they are like 97 or 98. Which means that out of every 100, there is the chance of two or three pregnancies even using condoms. Not a lot of risk, but it is still there. So follow the advice of the pregnancy test and possibly the doctor if your test comes back positive.

You might also consider adding a spermicidal foam or gel to your sex sessions. Or they have condoms with it already applied.

I hope everything works out for you, and good luck.