Positions?

[Maju]

Hey. I am not new to sex. But I have questions. My girlfriend is new to sex, we do it and all. I can't get all the way in her. I reallize she isn't all the way loose enough to get all of me in.
We have done Doggy Style, and Missionary positions. I want to know anymore that are worth while. Because I am in for exploration, and she is too. Post suggestions please.

[demonbuttercup]

check this site they have every position you can think of just about.
men on top, girl on top, side by side, and everything in between.
maybe you should try the side by side positions. they are really intimate but have more of a shallow penetration from my experience.

[Maju]

I found out why I couldn't get it in all the way. It hurt her when I hit something that she though was the back of it (which I find weird that it would be like 4 inches deep). So we reached the conclusion, that after 4 sessions or so she said it hurt when I hit that area. Well We found out (I found out I should say lol) that it was her Hymen (i hope I spelled that right). Because with some slow pressure i broke it. So yeah. We found the problem.
We also experimented. We have tried Missionary and Doggy Style. But we also tried the other night, that spooning thing. We also tried that thing where she is on top, and where I am holding her. I don't know. But I am more interested in experimenting now that I can get all the way in her lol.

[demonbuttercup]

well im glad you solved your problem.
only thing is that wasn't her hymen.
a womans vagina is only 3-4 inches deep.
usually when you hit something towards the back that kinda hurts is her cervix.
the hymen is located right at the entrance of the vagina. its a flap of skin that kinda covers the vaginal opening.
just thought id let you know.
but since you aren't having the same trouble its no big deal

[Maju]

ah ok. I slept through sex ed. I learned only what I needed to know. But I am all the way in her, so yeah... I was confused. -hits self in head- IM STUPID! -repeats-.... but yeah. My girlfriend now is the first virign I have ever been with. Soooo.... My knowledge on the hymen is way limited. Thanks for the new bit of info though.

also, why couldn't I get in so far before? Does the cervix have to adapt or something?

[amandas_boyfriend]

i just made love for the first time with my girlfriend the other night.. first we started missionary and it seemed to work pretty good, but she wanted it deeper in her.. i wasnt really sure what to do because i was pushing in as hard and as far as i could.. so i decided to try doggie style and for some reason we couldnt get it to work, its like i couldnt get it in or i couldnt only get it in like an inch lol, *my penis is 6 inches long and im 17 years old btw, and ive heard thats about normal size. anyways she is kinda a big girl, not fat but not skinny and i was wondering if that had anything to do with it?

[thetease13]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Maju @ April 21 2004,10:15)]also, why couldn't I get in so far before? Does the cervix have to adapt or something?

at first, a woman's body is not used to having something entered and pushed into her so it tends to hurt, even when going slow.
after a few times, a woman's body learns to adjust and stretch and adapt to what is inside of her.

[demonbuttercup]

amandas b/f
a lot of guys have come here w/ that problem trying doggystyle for the first time.
my advice is always make sure you are getting the angle right.
its usually more comfortable for her if she kinda lays forward or lays her head down. this way her butt is up in the air. being on all fours for me isn't that comfortable.
also, remember the angle that you are going in at. some guys try to go straight in but the angle is more up towards her back not her head or stomach.
that usually helps.
good luck.

[LittleFury]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] ]at first, a woman's body is not used to having something entered and pushed into her so it tends to hurt, even when going slow.
after a few times, a woman's body learns to adjust and stretch and adapt to what is inside of her.

Actually, for some girls, even though they are not virgins, it can still hurt then the guy first enters her. SO soemtiems you need to take that into account and just start out slow.

[thetease13]

i know.
it hurts me when he enters or fingers me and i'm not a virgin the last time i checked.

i was just saying that after time, your body will become more adjusted. while it may still hurt, it should hurt atleast somewhat less.