The art of BJs

[IMaChic]

I've almost become an expert in this area and i lovvee giving it to my bf
well use this topic to post down some of ur guy's fav moves when giving a bj that he's absolutely crazy about, or guys - post the stuff u like that ur gf's do to you
just trying to get sum fresh ideas

[thetease13]

that vein on the underside of the penis, that's your key. give lots of attention to that. run your tongue up it really slow.
never stop using your tongue. lick it, swirl your tongue around on the head, lick his balls, whatever. just don't stop using it.
and yes, give the balls attention. they like that.
and on a note i just noticed, i have never once teased my guy by blowing on it. something to take in consideration i guess.

and uh yea, whatever.
i don't really know how i give blowjobs, i just sorta do, whatever. and apparently, whatever i'm doing is right, cause he says i'm really good at it and yea, i say this a lot, but i swear he didn't believe me when i told him i had never given a blowjob before because he thought i was really good and thought that i had done it before to be that good. lol.

[oberon]

There is very smooth skin on the underside of the penis right below the head. An ex of mine could reach orgasm just by my sucking there.

For me, it's about pressure or forcefulness. I am constantly having to explain that if you get too rough I'll let you know until then DO IT HARDER! lol And, no, I'm not a masochist, but, good lord, it's not THAT delicate...

[thetease13]

as long as you don't twist the durn thing around and like stomp on it and kick it or punch it or mangle it in some way, i don't think the guy is really gonna have that much of objection to what you're doing.

the harder i seem to suck (and i'm one of those deep throat suckers. i guess all them years of being a singer paid off. lol) the more he pushes my head and wants me to deep throat.

[IMaChic]

yeah he tells me he really likes it when i deep-throat him. i usually alternate between lightly sucking/rubbing my lips around the head and then go all the way down on him, he likes that.
another key thing to keep in mind is guys love it when they know that you're loving it. its good to seductively look up directly into his eyes every once in awhile going down on him, the fact that you love his cock is a huge turn on to him. I know that i love it when he glances up at me when going down on me its a turn on.

[oberon]

Yeah, IMaChic, knowing the person is enjoying it, whether giving or receiving, is a BIG turn-on. Being able to feel the other person's enjoyment has caused two of the best orgasms in my life. No external stimulation of any sort, but when they orgasmed so did I. It was wild...and wonderful.

Thetease13, it's so amazing how these skills cross over. I've had a problem in the past with stomach ulcers and so I had to go and have an Upper GI. That's where they take a tube that looks like a garden hose and stick it down your throat. The nurses were amazed... I didn't even gag once...LOL.

[IMaChic]

lol well i guess ur a natural
so guys... any other tips??

[WallyLlama]

Unfortunately, I don't have any where near enough experience receiving bj's to know everything I'd like.

However, IMaChic, you are SO right. It's no good unless the giver is enjoying it... that means creating a balance between giving pleasure and making me cum.

It occurs to me this may be why a girl who's never done it is often so good at it.. she experiments and tries things... so there's lots of variation... she wants to learn and (hopefully) wants to "be good at it."

I suppose that can be hard to do with a long term partner, but it seems to me to be worth striving for... a continued sense of adventure and exploration. (And when your partner tries something new and different, you don't say, "Now where did you learn that?!!&quot

Mmm!

Wally

[IMaChic]

lol exactly! i've been with my bf for over 8 months ( thats 8 months of tons of bj's... and at thispoint i'm definantly experienced in giving them... but i just want some new tips, u kno, to throw in now and then to spice it up from the norm. every now & then i surprise him w/ something new i learned & he loves it. this one move i picked up from a magazine and it makes him cum sooo fast! what i do is i place my 2 hands around the shaft (fingers closed in a circle) and slowly move both of my hands away from eachother (one up and one down) at the same time and then come back together. doing this in a repetitive motion gives him the feeling of intense pleasure all over his penis at once and he can't stand it... whenever i do this to him he goes crazy

[WallyLlama]

(Shuddering)

Reading that description, I can understand why he goes crazy.

(Shuddering again.)

I'd like to offer a tip but I'm having trouble concentrating.

W