fingering

[courtney114]

told everyone i'd be back. lol
after this last fingering, im pretty sore. there was also some blood on my underwear when i looked later. pee burned when it was coming out. its a little bit better now, but i just wanted to check n make sure this was normal. thanks for reading =P

[demonbuttercup]

well i mean fingering shouldn't be all that painful but if you are still new to it i can see why.
maybe its him.
is he being overly rough w/ you?
maybe you aren't wet enough when he's doing it and he's just rubbing you raw down there.
also, his nails might need to be clipped and he's scratching you a little bit.
i know a lot of these things you don't notice when they are happening b/c you are kinda caught up in the moment, but the next day you're like..ouch...lol.
just make sure you are plenty lubed and he's being gentle.

[courtney114]

we're def new to it, this was only the third or fourth time we've done it and its never been for that long (we were at it for almost an hour)
i talked about it with him n he thinks its his fault (which it kind of is, obviously lol) the overly-rough thing might be valid because as we went on he was pushing harder and harder, prolly to imitate sex a bit more. im pretty sure i was wet enough. and the other thing he thought was that he scratched me, so when i read that up there, im thinkin that might be it.
and thats exactly what i told him....that i didnt even notice until after we were done, because during the fingering i thought ooo..thats different...but i didnt think "painful", just different. it wasnt until i got home that i noticed it was pretty sore. it still is, not as much tho.

i ended up with another problem, the entire reason i decided to tell him. all of a sudden out of no where today i was feeling wet, and very wet. so i went to the bathroom and it looked like i HAD gotten wet (from absolutely nothing, pretty much) but it was also a slight greenish color mixed it. im afraid i might have an infection. =(

thank you very much for your quick reply. all replies are still welcome =P

[demonbuttercup]

i don't know
its possible
i guess keep an eye on it
are you itchy down there as well?
in the future just make sure his hands are clean.
you never know what he might get in there...eww.

[courtney114]

no itching at least. but the incident is still young. lol
thank you so much for your help...ill speak with him about hand cleanliness, tho im pretty sure they were clean, you never kno. he didnt exactly have a purell bottle sittin next to him right before we started =P
thanks again =)