Bleeding the 2nd time

[IMaChic]

I recently had sex for the first time and it hurt a little and i bled just a little... but then the second time it hurt just as much (still not too much) and bled more this time, does anyone know if its ok to bleed more than once? or is something wrong?

[Rawbob]

Hi:
Bleeding and pain is NOT uncommon for those who engage in sex for the first time. How old are you? Did your partner use a condom or any form of lubrication?

[thetease13]

it's gonna take a few times for you to get used to having a penis up inside you, so you may bleed a little the first few times as well as hurt some (sometimes a lot).

if you're not bleeding buckets, i wouldn't be too concerned just yet. he may just be tearing something a smidge because you're not used to it and you're not lubricated enough.

if after a few times more, you're still having the same problem, i suggest going to the doctor.

[IMaChic]

sry i think i mistated my qs.. i know that it is common for pain and bleeding to occur the first time... my question was if bleeding the second time is ok or normal? thanks for the feedback.

[thetease13]

i don't think it's that common, but i don't think it's all too uncommon either.

like i said, sex takes a while to get used to.
if after a while you're still bleeding and it's still hurting, then go to a doctor.

[fortuna2007]

well i can't give you much advice as i'm new to sex myself, i've only had sex twice, but the second time hurt a lot more for me and i definatley bled more, but i guess i was expecting that cuz i'm such a tiny girl anyway lol The point is, you're not the only one so it can't be that uncommon or abnormal.

[aimee]

i had it for the second time last night and i bled again but it never hurt. and i dont know why

[lnt1103]

I bled and hurt my second time (couple years ago), I wouldn't worry about it. The hymen probably just didn't break quite all the way the first time, or it may have healed up a touch in between times.

Brandye can probably offer more from a medical standpoint.

[Brandye]

Not uncommon. Use a bit of lube until you get into the swing of things. If it persists, see your doctor - whom you should have seen before becoming a non-virgin. She can make certain everything is in the right place.