Does it hurt him?

[Alilsweetthang742]

Well I am still a virgin and I have been thinking about having sex with my BF, which is not a virgin. And we have been dating for a while and we have started seriously discussing it.

He tells me that taking a girls virginity isn't the greatest for the guy either. He said so much pressure hurts the guy too.

Is this true?

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

Hmm, i've never heard of that.. then again im a girl.. but it could be because she wasnt lubricated enough.. and if you do it for the first time use lube, it makes IT WAYYY easier!!! i would.. im agine..and for him too if he thinks it "hurts" but thats probally again cause she wasnt wet enough.. and it would almost make it.. have like a death grip or something.. on the guy..


jamie

[Rawbob]

Umm.....tell him.."nice try...but thats just not true".

The only way it might "hurt" him would be if he were to try and FORCE his penis in you wihtout any foreplay, or preparation...or using an unlubricated condom and again, trying to force it in you.

how old areyou both? Are you on birth control? does he have condoms?

[demonbuttercup]

i thought for guys the tighter the better. as long as everything is lubed good.
i mean just think how tight anal sex is.

[Humble]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Rawbob @ Mar. 03 2004,14:04)]Umm.....tell him.."nice try...but thats just not true".

I am not so sure. I think it could hurt him, though it is surely rare. We know nothing about him so let's not be quick to judge...

[thetease13]

any guy i know says the tighter, the better.

my guy loves that i'm fairly tight. he says it feels really good.

[Humble]

Well,... admitedly I have never had sex, so I cannot speak from experience and what you say, the tease, sounds reasonable, but there also seem to be exceptions to everything...

[thetease13]

well yes, there are exceptions to every rule.

but honestly, i think the guy is lying.
most guys are happy to take a girls viriginity...not generally because they would be happy to be that girls first, but because well, it feels good because it's tight.

when i told my guy that i wanted him to be my first (he wasn't a virgin btw), he wanted to know if i was sure that i wanted to do this. but i will never forget the fact that he said he'd love to be my first. and he was very sincere about that. he felt honored that i chose him of all people.

and after all said and done, i do know that he likes me. i do know that he cares for me. but i also know that he likes screwing around with me not just for those reasons, but for the fact that i am tight and it feels really good to him. [ok that and apparently i give really really good blowjobs. lol]