First time kiss

[firsttimedude]

hi i have never been with a girl befor and i want to know how to kiss, i dont want 2 b bad at it my first time can anyone help??

[thetease13]

um, you just sorta, do it?

i just had my first real kiss this month. it just started out as a peck like it always had before, and the next thing i know, his tongue was in my mouth and i just sorta went with the flow.

but um, a tip: don't shove your tongue into her mouth. gently open and slide the tongue in.
and don't worry about being bad at it. it's your first time. everyone has to learn somehow or another and the best way to learn is to try it a few times.

[archer]

Dont use a lot of tongue first off, if she wants tongue she'll let u know by throwing her tongue in ur mouth . just have soft lips, open ur mouth a little, close ur eyes. experiment! dont slobber, keep it light (for a first kiss). remember a kiss isnt just about lips and tongue, a kiss also involves ur whole body. you can use ur arms to trace her back, her face, use ur body to move gently against hers, u can make small moans to tell her you love hte way she kisses, breathe deeply, etc.

dont worry....ull b fine. wen u get more use to it u can maybe (and i stress) lightly suck on her lip briefly or suck on her tongue

[Cornelius111]

I like theTease's answer. Everyone worries about it before the kiss, but once it comes you just sort of do it, it's like second nature. If the girl has a style then you go with the flow, if not you make your own. Every time you do it you'll get better, so just relax and realize everyone gets nervous about this, but when the time comes it just happens and you just do it, trust me on this. Also, a couple tips:
1. Breathe through your nose.
2. Don't ram your tongue down her throat or smother her.
Besides that you should be good to go.

[oberon]

Yeah, it just sort of happens. *Just relax and go with it.

I don't know if this will apply to straight guys but don't turn kissing into a competition. *I think that is the right word...I was with a guy once who sort of, I don't know, had to be higher than me, taller than me- I felt like he was always trying to lean over me (maybe a dominance thing)-anyway it made kissing feel like a lot of work.

[LittleFury]

Just go with the flow and do what feels natural. It's that easy, seriously.

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

Oberon.. i know what you mean..

BUt one thing i dont like is when someone kisses.. and FORCES themselves on me.. like Pressing with their jaws.. so its like.. trying to push you over but with their jaw.. and mouth.. i hate that.. it hurts my jaws LOL

jamie