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[mtldude]

1)i just want to know if having sex with a cousin will have any extra chance of std's or anything!!!! answer me back
2) i had sex with my teacher does anybody find that disturbing

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

YEA no. The Cousin thing is more DESTURBING.. sorry but thats sick... its FAMILY.. bah.. but no.. that doesnt mean you have a higher chance... you have a high chance at any time.. no matter the person.

jamie

[thetease13]

1) related or not, your chance of std's is there. being related to someone doesn't increase your chance of std's. having unprotected sex, no matter who it's with, increases your chance.
2) well, i would find it disturbing if you were say, 15 or something and your teacher was like 40. but then, if i think about it, never really was fond of the whole teacher/student relationship thing. it just seems wrong to me.
granted, i find the cousin thing much more disturbing than the teacher thing.

[mtldude]

just 2 clairify this im 15 and the teacher is 27........ we had unprotected sex also

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

.... ok well sorry thats wrong.. they are your TEACHER>.. thats against the law or something.. cause.. HELLO can you say PEDOFILE?... yea i suck at spelling. :P but serious.. ew..

jamie

[thetease13]

yea...well...not a huge age gap but yea, against the law, and she can very very VERY much be fired for that.

edit: i should say that i don't have a problem with age gaps, before someone accuses me of that. i mean, i'm 23, my guy is 40...so ya know, don't have a problem with the age thing. just to make that clear.

[archer]

BOTH ARE SO FRIGGIN WRONG! i dont know wat ur thinking ! you really shouldnt be getting yourself into these kinds of situations. Whether the teacher is a he or she, its completely unethical and jsut down right disguisting. its horrible to think about...and to top it off with your cousin, that's just unthinkable! If you have a baby with your cousin you could seriously hit problems with teh baby and pregnancy. Its wrong, its family!!

You have to re-evaluate ur ethics and morals, and think about wat your doing, and who with!

[Cornelius111]

Forget fired, the teacher could be thrown into jail for statutory rape. Also, I believe the law is you can't marry anyone who is your 3rd cousin or closer.(1st cousin is one of your parents brother's or sister's(your aunt or uncle's) children, then for every generation on each side add 1. So if your 1st cousin has kids, the kids are your 2nd cousins. If you then have kids, your kids are 3rd cousins with your cousins kids, etc.) So I would consider sex with anyone 3rd cousin or closer to be wrong. If children result there is a higher chance of mental disabilities/deformities, etc.

[Cornelius111]

If you're talking a distant cousin, however, like maybe 6+, then I guess it's up to you.

[oberon]

Would someone please explain to me what is so difficult about using a condom? *I mean, the directions are right there on the box. *What- it take 10 seconds longer to get to sex? *It ruins the mood?

Try a screaming baby in the background- what does that do for the mood? *Try explaining to a potential partner you have HIV or herpes. *That takes a lot longer than 10 seconds and it certainly doesn't promote a sexy atmosphere. *Unless you don't plan to take the time to tell them. *In which case it's not just stupid, it's criminal.

Okay, this is going to be harsh.

Mtldude...please don't have any children with a cousin. *If you haven't figured out safe-sex, then your children are going to need all the help they can get- not hereditary mental disorders. *The morality of the act is a societal question; knowingly harming a child isn't, it's just plain wrong.

Cornelius111 is right on track with this teacher. *When it's an older woman and an underage male, then people seem to shrug it off, even think it's funny. *It's not. *It's still statutory rape. *It's a crime. I think it's even more apalling that SHE didn't insist on safe-sex. *But I guess if you are going to have sex with a child, your judgement probably isn't the best in the world.

Summary of advice: *Get tested for STDs; Learn to use condoms; Look for sexual partners closer to your own age, outside your own family.