probably a silly question

[thetease13]

and one i should probably know the answer to, but i'm not quite sure. *lol.

anyways,
i know that the vagina expands so it is able to fit objects like a penis in it (and obviously expands to give birth).
but i have some what of a short canal (blah) and I was wondering if after a while, the canal would actually adjust itself (expand/stretch/whatever) so the penis could go in further.

did that make any sense?

[archer]

I'd say it would, just like it would grow to fit a baby in.

[Bewitching]

I'm not sure whether you're a virgin or not. By the sounds of it, you've had sex a couple of times. *If you are a virgin, that will explain it all, and you will grow. *If you're not a virgin and dont have sex everyday, then it will take time to stretch.

When you have sex, try all different positions each time you go for it. *Doing so will start to expand your area from all angles. *Dont' keep changing all the time DURING sex, as this will most likely end up being too sore and/or uncomfy.

If you have further concerns, a Gynocologist will by more than willing to help. *They're great people with experience in this particular department and they're more than open to any questions. *I hope this helped and good luck!! *

[thetease13]

ok, cool. thanks guys. i appreciate the help.

no, not a virgin, but don't have sex every day either.
i've only had sex once, but i feel that my canal is fairly short since when i first had it, he had no problem entering, which makes me believe my hymen was already torn. however, what seemed like halfway down his shaft, he kept hitting an "obstacle" and i think that obstacle was my cervix. and i was just sorta wondering that if after a while, it would get sorta used to it and expand a little.

i'm just sorta kinda trying to clear up a little bit of confusion. we plan on getting together on saturday (that is, if nothing comes up at the last minute like it always seems to), so i thought now would be a good time to ask any questions that i have.

[Bewitching]

Hey, no problems.

When you have sex, remember to move around a bit, move on different angles 'till you get there.

Don't worry, you'll be fine, you've just gotta work on it. I remember going through the same thing, honestly. It's all a learning experience on what's right for you!

And remember to use lube! That's the best thing you could do!

HAVE FUN!

[Rawbob]

Hi...the only other times i have heard this were from very very thin ladies and very small ladies. The pelvis does protrude down towards the front of the cervix, and i know my xwife and i had to adjust our lovemaking because my penis would hit there and it was uncomfortable.

Some ideas for you, doggie position is good, also, if u like conventional/missionary position, put a pillow under her bum..this will change the angle of penetration.

[thetease13]

yea, i'm a very small person. 5'2" and weigh about 95 lbs.

we tried doggystyle the first time, cause missionary wasn't getting us anywhere. missionary seemed to hurt a lot worse than doggystyle (even if it goes deeper that way).
i'm not really an on top person, so we tried different positions and doggy seemed to work the best, sorta.
but i'll make note of the pillow thing.

i know it takes time to adjust, and i know i'm most likely gonna hurt the first few times. and it'd probably be easier if there wasn't 3 month time spans in between each time. lol.
but atleast this time i'll somewhat know what to expect and this time, we're a lot more aware of what each other wants. we've become a lot more sexual towards each other this month, so hey, that's a start. lol.