Few Questions

[Pelezo]

Ok, first off, I know you'll hate me, but me and my girlfriend have been having unprotected sex for 2 months now (no rubber), we are ready if a baby comes and are kind of planning it, we both want one, but I still pull out to semi-delay it.

Second, she wants a threesome TOMORROW, I dont know wether to shout up and down with joy (every guys dream) or be weird about it, she says she doesnt care if the other girl jumps on me, which I find kind of weird as she has always been a very shy girl when it came to sex, I had to tell her not to hold back moaning because she was shy about it. Then she pops out with this threesome thing, I was like COOL at first then later on I started thinking about how sex between two people (especially us) is an emotional thing, when we go with another girl I'll feel like I cant satisfy them BOTH, the girl she invited has known her for a long time but they never have done anything like this (they are both very HOT & have good everything) but I'm not going to stop loving my girlfriend or anything, I will always love her and I dont know what to do.

Third, my girlfriend orgasams A LOT, I feel so good, but she always is afraid to moan so she literally rips the back of my head (my actual head, not my di..) because she doesnt want to moan, most of the time when we get up the carpet below that spot is wet as hell! I need some tips on how to get her to moan, I told her dont hold back and shes starting to moan louder and louder everyday and believe me shes not faking it, I've never had a girl fake on me, I could tell everytime.

Fourth, Pubic Hair, I want to get rid of some of it as it is starting to become a jungle but I dont know how I should trim it, I think this is the reason why she really doesnt like giving oral sex (said so lol) but Idk wether to ask her to trim it or not, I dont want it shaven and feel like a little boy.

[oberon]

Welcome Pelezo.

I'll take your questions in the order you listed them:

1. *I really don't see a question here. *I don't have a problem with unprotected sex as long as you know what the consequences can be- pregnancy and STDs- and are prepared to live with them. *It's when people can't be bothered to take precautions, and then want to panic and wail, that I get a little manic. *So if you think you are ready to skip the precautions- go for it.

2. *You'll do what you like, of course, but, having had threesomes, if any one of the three aren't sure, then my suggestion would be at least to wait. *It's a lot easier to put together a threesome, than it is to undo the problems/pain of one gone wrong.

3. *Do you want her to moan for you or for her? *Either way it is her decision, and all you can do is encourage, not push, her and make sure she feels comfortable enough to let go. *If she feels comfortable and wants to then she will, if not, then she SHOULDN'T.

4. *Just trimming only takes a pair of scissors. *Just cut til you get the length you want. *Or if you want to get fancy, then use a regular electric hair trimmer with a length guard. *You can find them at any department store- like Wal-mart- for under $10. *You might try shaving just the scrotum just once. *I've kind of gotten over it, but have to admit it feels great when you first do it.

Hope some of this answers your questions, and helps.

[Pelezo]

1. Well, we both are prepared and ready for a baby and both have been tested for STD's (we did it when we first had sex to be sure as I had been with other girls and she hadnt been with other guys)

2. I want it believe me, I do, but Im just afraid of her getting jealous later on because the girl lives right down the street, but she promised she wouldnt, the other girls like HELL YEAH LETS GO!

3. Well, dont get me wrong, the grabbin my back and head feel really good but sometimes I wish she would just moan, for both of us, one to get some of her stuff out of the way, two for me to feel encouraged, I used to feel inadequeate but now im fine as she semi-moans on a normal basis, she had to be comfrotable and your right, thats exactly what I made her do, be comfrotable (except when parents are home hehe.

4. I just trimmed it out of curiosuity, pretty easy, just dont nick your self with the electric razor , it was realitivly easy, just pull up the hair and trim like regular hair (sadly i used to trim my dog all the time, same concept, not down there but I had to trim her belly and stuff, beagle). It doesnt ITCH like I expected it to, just a little, really tingles more than anything my balls feel lighter too hehe, my sack has always been kind of shy of hair, I dont know why, everywhere else there is a ton (especially above my penis and around the base of it) idk, what about the area below your penis and above the anus, the prostate i believe, is it wrong to shave that, I just feel it might feel a bit better.

[Pelezo]

PS, we arent really basing the relationship off of sex, but we both like it a lot, we both enjoy each other and are comfrotable with each other, but on average we go from 3-5 times a day, is this too much, my record right now is 9 times in one day, all with cum at the end of each session

[oberon]

There is no such thing as too much sex, as long as both partners are willing and being satisfied.

Dude, from reading your posts, I now know that you have a large penis, your girlfriend has large breasts, SHE wants to have a threesome, your having sex 3-5 times a day, even after 9 times in one day you can still ejaculate, oh yeah, and you are very much in love! *If I didn't know better, I'd say you were bragging. lol

[Pelezo]

Not trying to but I guess I get carried away

[demonbuttercup]

i dunno dude id say you have a lot to think about.
you mentioned in another post you and your g/f go to school together. HS or college, either way thats too young to be having kids. you both should definetly graduate and get jobs before you even consider kids.
plus, i don't think its very responsible for someone to mention wanting kids and having 3-somes in the same thought.
i mean theres nothing wrong w/ sexual exploration but if you are considering kids you should get all your sexual stuff out before that. then once you've been there done that, you can settle down. you shouldn't do something that could possibly jeopardize the relationship when theres children involved.
another thing, if you do have a kid, think how much that will cut into your sex time. you'll be lucky if you get it 3-4 times a month. and if you ever do get her to moan she'll have to learn to be quiet again b/c you might wake up the kids...lol.

[?wiseman?]

ahhh, demon, sometimes you sound like my inner self. Pelezo, I'm not gonna judge you because I don't know you, but unless there's a lot more to you guys than what I'm reading here, you're no where near ready to have and support a child. Do you guys have healthcare? Do you have any idea how much it costs to raise a child through it's first 3-5 years? Does one of you plan on dropping out of school so that you don't have to pay for childcare? We're not talking Cabbage Patch kid her. I could go on and on, but won't.

On the matter of your threesome, have at it and enjoy yourselves, but I hope y'all have had your third party tested as well.

[Cornelius111]

Who left it up to the message board to debate whether or not this man is ready to have a baby? He said that both him and his girlfriend are ready for a baby if it comes. We shouldn't judge whether or not he is or whether or not him and his girlfriend are too young. If the man knows what he's getting into then leave him be, people are allowed to have babies whenever they choose, it's not a prerequisite that you have to be out of college.

[?wiseman?]

Cornelius, if you look around this board you will find a very wide range of topics and you'll find that the members will weigh in with their opinions on anything and they have a right to do so, just as you have a right to dissent. So let's take a quick look at what we know from Pelezo's post:

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] ]I go over to her house everyday, we go to the same school

This would indicate to me, perhaps incorrectly, that these 2 are still in high school.

They've been dating 5 months.

They now are planning a threesome. Though I'll give him credit for not being too sure about this one.

There are a few other red flags, in my opinion, that suggest that this is not a couple that is ready for parenthood.

from you:

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] ]We shouldn't judge whether or not he is or whether or not him and his girlfriend are too young.

from me:

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] ]Pelezo, I'm not gonna judge you because I don't know you, but unless there's a lot more to you guys than what I'm reading here, you're no where near ready to have and support a child.

Now you're entitled to disagree with my opinion or that of any other member, but I personally don't need your lecture.