Not once

[mcpurk]

ok well i been with my girl for 5 months.. no sex!! ok i can deal with this cos shes a virgin and wants to be on teh pill 1st so im cool with it i deal with this, but i can finger her and go down on her thats all good but in the entire time i have been with her she has only ever pulled me of thats it!!!!!!!!! she has never ever mad em cum! wat teh f*** do i do i love her for her but this is killing me i love her but its liek i dunno i need something sorry if this seems low but wat do i do here ???

[Mouta]

If your honestly with a girl for her to blow you...think about the relationship bro.

[oberon]

Have you tried talking to her about this? I can think of too many scenarios to list advice for without knowing the specifics of your situation. So all I can say is ask her what she wants to do. Maybe she has gone as far as she is ready to go, or maybe, as a virgin, she is unsure how to continue. But you won't know til you ask.

[demonbuttercup]

maybe she's just scared and nervous.
when i was a virgin i would avoid going down on my b/f b/c i was afraid id do it wrong or hurt him or whatever.
just talk to her tell her its ok that she's not experienced at it.
and if her reason is b/c she's not ready then don't pressure her.

[archer]

All you can really do is talk to her, say that you like some attention as much as she does. She is a virgin, so maybe this could be a test, she is just trying to look for the one to be her first, and i guess she's lookin for someone who is patient, looks after her, and not sex crazed. i guess ull have to go along with her and push her gently.

good luck

[jakespoon]

Hold back with the cunnilingus for a while and see if she comes around.

[Admiral_Ace]

Wow-what is this world coming to? mcpurk, seriously, settle yourself down a bit and think about what your saying. If you really love, care for, and respect this girl you should get some freaking patience and possibly take another look at what your priorities are. It seems like kids these days just expect some kind of sexual acts after they've been with someone for a certain period of time, and to me, that's just not the way it works. My g/f and I were both virgins when we started dating, and didn't do anything besides kiss (that's right-no sexual activity of any kind, not even french kissing) until we had been dating for almost six months. You really have to grow into a relationship and respect each other's boundaries. My advice to you, sit down and talk with her, and if she doesn't want to have sex or make you cum that's entirely her decision. If you can't deal with it-well you'll just have to figure it out yourself from there.

[demonbuttercup]

other post
as you'll read from mcpurk's other posts he's wanting to make his g/f jealous so she'll chase him around like she used to b/c he's used to having many girls chasing him.
i think maybe he's just making excuses to break up w/ her since she wont go down on him.
there's more to a relationship than that.
like everyone says definetly try talking to her and ask her. don't put pressure on her just be like im curious why you don't.
like i said could be she's scared or nervous she'll do it wrong or maybe she's not ready yet.

[Pelezo]

I found out after I had sex with my girlfriend (5months now) that I was her first, I wasnt pressuring her because I loved her but we talked about it around 2 1/2 months because we were really that much in love, I go over to her house everyday, we go to the same school, we used condoms for about 2 weeks, then we got to the point one day where we did it once when she got out the shower without it and I told her I dont want to do it because I was afraid but then about a week after that I changed my mind because I do love her and we were both discussing a baby anyways.

The best thing to do is talk to her, don't bring up sex, just let it happen, it will, trust me, girls like that (i think)