Lesbian sex

[devils_kitty]

Oh man....What Do I do? I told my bestfriend about 5 months ago that i was bi-sexual...She's not though. At-least she claims she's not...the reason why I don't believe her is because in a couple of hours, she's coming too my house, and she wants to basically have sex. I'm all up for it, kind of...I just have no idea wat to do! Extrememly nervous cause I think I..uh.."love" her. And this isn't just a sex thing for me, plus I've never done lez sex before? What do I do, how do I start out? Any help would be cool.. Thanx

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

well first, you should TELL Tihs person.. you arent experienced with it... she might not be bisexual, it could be the whole.. wanting to experiment, and hell i would have fun with it.. unless your uncomfortable with the idea.. don't do it..


Jamie

[oberon]

First of all, slow down. Deep Breath.

Now, this is not a now or never proposition. If it is, then I personally think it's best to pass.

Second, you should definitely establish the ground rules before you jump into bed with someone. If this is likely to be more serious to you, you need to recognize that and she needs to know it. No one likes being dumped, and if she's just playing around or experimenting then that is what it will feel like when you are done- like you have been dumped. You need to think about how you are going to feel with whichever scenario plays out and whether you want to live with the possible pain.

As far as lesbian sex goes-well- that's a completely abstract subject for me{lol}, but in general theory, I would say just do what feels good and right. You should have some idea of how you like to be touched, so just start with that and see how she responds. If nothing else, ask. See what she wants to do.

Above all, take care of yourself. Play safe. Remember, you have the rest of your life; nothing has to be done right this instant. Take your time and enjoy yourself.

[laroxes]

In your lifetime you will love many people to different degrees & in different ways. You don't love your parents or children in the same way as you do those you want to share an intimate sexual experience with. If you don't explore the fulfillment of your desires & needs you will always be asking yourself, "What would it have been like?" Go slow & gently give & accept the affection from those that care about you.

[Greendale]

She probably wants to experiment with you, she's being a little nervous and scared of it, that's why being "straight acting". When she comes over, just tell her what you just told us. Tell her that you want a serious relationship with her and you want to stay with her for a long time. If she says yes, congratulations. If she says no, she wants to use you for sex, then she isn't for you.

But anyways, if this is your first time having sex with another woman, just experiment. Watch a lot of lesbian porn and do what they do.

[lov2lickit23]

maybe you shoud tell her how you feel maybe she feels the same way and shes hidding her feelings. once you get things out in the open it will be easier to talk about more sexual things or even try them. lesbian sex is very intense do what you feel, kiss her. than just let other things happen, you know what makes you feel good try it on her.

[Brandye]

This is five years old. The poster has not been here for years.