would a 'drink' help with nervousness?

[ironman]

I was wondering if having a tiny bit of alcohol would help with the nervousness that comes with having sex for the first few times? I've heard that alcohol can be good or bad when it comes to this...

but does anyone have any thoughts? it would make sense since it kinda calms you down and makes you forget your worries...? *shrug*

[thetease13]

yea it could but you have to remember that drinking for the first few times (especially the first time) can come back and bite you in the butt later on.

alcohol impairs you in many ways in later on in life (or the next day or whenever) you may see your "first time" as some sort of rape issue because you were drunk and didn't really know what you were doing.

catch my drift?

[mike]

If you think you need to drink to have sex because you're nervous, you don't need to be having sex.

[LittleFury]

It could potentially help, but it could also have bad sideeffects. Imagine, you had too much alcohol and right during it you start feeling sick and puke...oh yeah, what a turn on. It can also impare your ability to get aroused from what I've heard. Seriously, if you have to have alcohol to do it, maybe you should really wait. PLus there are other ways to relax. Try chamomile tea, nice relaxing evening, hot bath. That would work better.

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

I duno, about any of you guys.. but my best sex.. lol is when im drinking usally.. because.. well im a shy person takes me long long time to fully get used to.. say being naked.. and what not with my partner.. but if i am... drinking alittle.. it lets me relax just alittle easier.. cause im so.. passive.. .lol and it lets me try things i've wanted to but just been too shy to try, but you have to be with someoen you TRUST.. and they TRUST YOU. and you both know you've been drinking and so forth...