can lap dancing really turn a guy on?

[eliza]

i thought lap dancing can really turn a guy on. i tried to review the lap dancing on this web, but can't seem to open. is there any other videos on lap dancing? i thought it'd be good to learn some basic

[Ed22]

Oh yes it can, at least it really works for me, it can be very arousing.

[wonderboy]

Hmmm.. lets see, my girlfriend in sexy underwear rubbing herself against me/furniture? Works for me!
I know FHM once did an article about lap dancing, try their website. www.fhm.com

[Pack149]

In short, yes

[Nurse Naddy]

Hey eliza

In my experience lap dances are a great way to turn a guy on and can be tons of fun and make you feel really hot / sexy!

For myself, I learned from movies *LOL* Kinda cheesy, but it gave me the basics to become creative on my own. Good movies to watch include Show Girls, that movie with Demi Moore when she's a stripper, dirty dancing....not just lap dance scenes, but movies with scenes that are sexy....

Mostly, just have fun...he's bound to love it no matter what you do! And lingerie is always a plus to add a big smile or surprise!

[colombiano]

elisa the only thing you have to do is let your self go and move whit the mood and you see that is allways going to turn him on right there

[dancingdoc2]

Good answers these, particularly the last one.

Do what interests you and do not be afraid to experiment and explore taking your cues from his reactions.

Place him in a straight back chair without arms like a dining room chair or card table chair. Alternately, you can have him sit on a comfy chair with arms that is wide. A couch works, also and both of these require that you kneel over him. I really prefer the first one because he is sitting straight up and you can sit directly on him.

The rules are there are no rules. You can give him preliminary kisses and caresses--or not. Your choice.

I'd make sure his penis is centered and pointing northward toward his belly button.

You can rock around and move against his erection. A cautionary word is to watch out where his balls are because to much rocking and gyrating might cause him some discomfort if they are between his legs.

There is a movie whose name escapes me at the moment (Dirty Harry?), staring Clint Eastwood, in which he is tied to a chair and the vixon in the movie gives him a lap dance much against his will. The fact that he struggles to prevent it yet is powerless to prevent the inevitable is compelling and a real turn on. You might want to try this tactic with your man.

You can dress provocatively or not, again, your choice. As for him, I think you get the best results friction wise if you begin while he has his pants on. Later, if you want to remove his pants and finish him off (again?) then have at it. He can have his shirt on or not as youi choose. Just play with this and have have fun.

[YourSecretPoison]

How I learned the best moves...

Carmen Electra's Strip Dancing areobic tapes!!!!

They are so much fun to do and at the end of the exercise tape, she breaks the dances down that you learned and shows you different variations that can look really sexy. I have 3 of her videos and they're awesome.

http://www.centralhome.com/ballroomc...otic_dance.htm

3rd one and down within that link have Carmen Electra's videos.

[Steff]

You can try youtube.com or probably even a porn site. I love to dance and i love my man... put the two together with some music and lights and i jus go with the flow... you dont really need instructions, unless you cant dance lol

Just:
Tease, grind, take something off, brush up against him, & repeat until hard-on. haha

Good Luck!

~Steff

[Ephemera]

Lap dancing doesn't really do it for me. I'm not the type of person who likes to sit back and be pleasured or aroused. I like to be more involved. To get the engines runnin' I like having an intense make out session and moving into some rough foreplay.