Erection Trouble 101

[Chyeah]

hey im 16 rite and ive been with my current gf for about 4 months now, and we both want 2 hav sex and hav tried a couple of times b4, but the thing is it didnt quite work. for example i coudlnt get it in cauz she waz too tight and i waz not fully erect. but also even now i hav trouble getting an erection in the 1st place wen im with her or i get it while im getting head or a hand job but as soon as she stops or i put the condom on it slowly goes away and i dunno wat 2 do???

[Chyeah]

hey im 16 rite and ive been with my current gf for about 4 months now, and we both want 2 hav sex and hav tried a couple of times b4, but the thing is it didnt quite work. for example i coudlnt get it in cauz she waz too tight and i waz not fully erect. but also even now i hav trouble getting an erection in the 1st place wen im with her or i get it while im getting head or a hand job but as soon as she stops or i put the condom on it slowly goes away and i dunno wat 2 do???

[speeding_devil]

A few years ago i had a gf i was like only 14 i kinda like had thesame problem.. the first few minutes i had a hard erection but then it's like i got kinda nervous and my d*ck went soft so i couldn't go on with sex... it was really abit embarassing for me! before i didn't know but now i do that i was just too nervous before i just tought something was wrong wit my d*ck lol!

[speeding_devil]

A few years ago i had a gf i was like only 14 i kinda like had thesame problem.. the first few minutes i had a hard erection but then it's like i got kinda nervous and my d*ck went soft so i couldn't go on with sex... it was really abit embarassing for me! before i didn't know but now i do that i was just too nervous before i just tought something was wrong wit my d*ck lol!

[speeding_devil]

sorry for the double post my bad!

[14yroldVirgin]

IM curious, if the girl is hot enough, how can you loos ur boner... just curious.. i mean im a virgin (read the name) but i dont think that i could loose a stiffy if i was about to get laid, no matter how nervous i was... how does this happen?

[canoestripper]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (14yroldVirgin @ Dec. 05 2005,20:23)]IM curious, if the girl is hot enough, how can you loos ur boner... just curious.. i mean im a virgin (read the name) but i dont think that i could loose a stiffy if i was about to get laid, no matter how nervous i was... how does this happen?

I agree with you, I've never had a problem with losing it, and I don't think I could if I tried. Everyone is not "wired" the same, however, and for many nervousness does them in. Doubt, fear, nerves, and embarrassment are all big factors. It really doesn't matter how "hot" the girl is (it even makes it worse in some cases). Many times all it takes is a success or two and the problem is solved.

If you spend time reading similar posts, you will discover many things that contribute to this "problem" (mostly mental in nature). The main thing to remember is that everyone is different, and it runs from one end of the spectrum to the other.

Take care.

Edit: Oh...I forgot to mention cases of physical problems that lead to dysfunction.

[Fox]

Mate im the same, dont feel bad, i did coz she though she was bad the truth is we are givers u love giving her pleasure and hearing her enjoy herself the same must be said when u give her oral, i found i was more turned on by giving than getting. us it to your advantage if u dont get much out of it but do the other way round i say let it be. if she wants to let her but other wise giving is good.
Matt

[new_neo]

Hello everybody!

i m new to this site.my penis length is 6.5 inches and the circumference is 4 inches,my problem is tht i when i was with a girl and we were ready to have sex i was enable to have erection but otherwise i regularly mastuburate ( 1-2 in a day),since then i am realy very depressed from that incident.
i have also developed another habit of mastuburating only while watching adult movies and reading stories,is it healthy or is something wronge with me.
every morning i have a hardon when i wake up.
pls help

[Dr.Evil]

As iam a new member here so wanna ask a question if no one minds??
my question is that does over masterbation lead to erectile dysfunctions???