Fingering 101

[Psyle]

This is why you should talk before sex. If you're not sure what to do, tell the person to guide your mouth or hands. What's to be ashamed of? You're already naked and trying to cum.

[SexTherapy]

make sure not to push too hard...

seems like brandye is our girl information on genitals giver extrordinaire.
good job on the education people.

[starlette587]

Originally Posted by Stephanie083099

I dont like to be fingered, I like to be played with, if that makes any sense. I like to be played with the outside and not the inside, when my b/f sticks his fingers inside, it doesnt do much for me.

I agree with you 100%. I LOVE being played with. Fingering just doesn't do much for me. I like the idea of being teased or teasing myself. It's so much more satisfying for me.

[sageadvice79]

1. clip your fingernails
2. make sure your hands are clean, and I mean like washed not like you just finished playing with a box of puppies
3. talk to her, ask if it's good. if it's awkward than laugh with her. let her know what's going on or if you're confused.
4. ask her to do it with you, guide your hand or place her hand on top of yours, she'll pry push when she wants pressure and stroke your hand when she wants stroked.

[Bunni]

Originally Posted by Tjdude

3 holes? oh boy!, you are realy lost there. I wonder what will be the use of the third one. Well, my practical advice is that you go and find some porn pics in the web (for educacional purpose of course, that should not be to so hard, since there are trillions of them) and take a good look, there are plenty of vaginas there. That's just so you can get an idea of what you will find on your g/f.
I hope some one here can give you a better help. Good luck .

No, he's right, there are three holes on a girls back end... Her anus, urethra, and her vagina... He's not confused.. At all... but in the diagram, you put your fingers in the vagina... Because the anus, is where he waste leaves... And the urethra is where the urine comes from... Your 'body parts' belong in the vagina.
Hope fully that helps a bit...

[Sexpert44]

I was a virgin when i met my now boyfriend and at first i was really tight (obviously). You just have to do it a few times for you to loosen up and get used to what it feels like. Believe me, it feels amazing when you actually get a little more loose.

[working girls]

Originally Posted by Psyle

This is why you should talk before sex. If you're not sure what to do, tell the person to guide your mouth or hands. What's to be ashamed of? You're already naked and trying to cum.

I would say that talking before sex is as important as taking after sex. Sure it’s important to talk about it before doing it, especially if you have found the girl through an escort service, but if she is your girlfriend, then the feedback must have the same importance as talking before sex. It improves a lot the quality of the next sex session and brings you both closer.

[cakret]

about fingering, it depends on the girls preference, but definally have a hand that is manicured or not having long nails or jaged edges, as ive seen before on some tv shows liek real sex, a manicured man, is the sign of a sexually trained man, who knows what hes doing, the right hole is very easy to find, your not looking for the ass hole, witch may be a hole u where refering to, or the urethra, witch is where a girl urinated from, witch unlike us men is different, the clit is above the urethra and the vaginal opening, and the vagina, is easy to locate and feel, just rememebr is the hole thats furthest south before u go into, uncharted areas as it wore. while fingering her, pay ttention to body langauge, a girl thats trully enjoying it and not faking it for your benefit, has certain, body languages that show shes accualy aroused and enjoying it, this takes time to learn and notice, depending on ur girl, different things may vary.

[lovetolust]

i think it makes it much easier for my bf to finger me when hes been kissing me for a long time, and like feelin around my body n stuff!
if that makes sene to any1.
but yeah it was hard at first, but i love it now hehe!

[AlwaysUnsure]

i find my g/f is easier to acsess lol after a few kisses on the back of the neck try it