Fingering 101

[aussie_gal]

i dont think being fingered is the best thing ever, but it's good. The best part of it is when my boyfriend takes his fingers out and they are soaking wet, i love to suck on all his fingers. I love doing that, and all the guys seem to go crazy when i do it too

[girlysexnerd]

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Quote[/b] (Tjdude @ Sep. 05 2002,00:33)]I don't know too much about fingering either dude, but for what my past girlfriends told me, women do not realy enjoy fingering. Maybe they do, but you realy realy need to know what you are doing, you can't just put your hand in there and start moving it or trying to get your finger inside of her. You need to be in the right angle and position or you will hurt her, and i find out that it works great if you are giving her oral sex and fingering at the same time. That my friend realy works. But as i told you, you need to know what you are doing, and the best way is to go down there and see for yourself what is going on. Well, i hope that help, good luck .

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[QUOTE] totaly agree with the fingering thing, My first time getting oral I sat up when I climaxed, it was only then that I realized that I was even being fingered-the pressure felt great and it made me more comfortable with going all the way.

[Friden]

Originally Posted by aussie_gal

i dont think being fingered is the best thing ever, but it's good. The best part of it is when my boyfriend takes his fingers out and they are soaking wet, i love to suck on all his fingers. I love doing that, and all the guys seem to go crazy when i do it too

Holy **** lol. That would probably make me go crazy if that happened. But then again I cant just go to my girlfriend and tell her to suck on them. It wouldnt bother me if she didnt want to do it. Thats her choice. I for one have not tried fingering yet...a few emotions run throught me when i think about it. Anxious (always wanted to try it), nervous(dont know what im doing or how well ill do but thats what practice is for). Im sure I wont be too bad...just have to wait and see I guess.

[Lonewolf*]

Thats hot aussie_gal. I dont think I'd mind trying that, but kind like Friden says, just the other way around, How exactly would I tell my boyfriend I'm willing to try that. Well I guess girls have it easier, if we want to we can just take the guys hand afterwards and slowly lead it up to our mouths.

Practice makes perfect. Just make sure she's ready for you to do that Friden, lol and make sure you avoid her time of the month so she doesnt have to turn you down. Unless you go for that. I dont know. Not for me personally.

[Friden]

I dont know if you can really tell him that you want to do it. Like you said, just grab his hand once he takes it out and just start sucking on his fingers. See what he does...

Ill be sure to stay away from doing that during that time of the month.
Thanks Lonewolf.

[SouthernFF]

im a virgin, and my first time of gettin' fingered was like on April 4th, by my bf, and he was the first one that has ever done that to me, and he did it so sweet, and so gental that it felt great, and i love it, cause he did it right, and didnt rush anything, and he's got big hands, and it was no prob, he was soo sweet to me, and it prolly helped that we knew eachother since we was like real young...but being fingered is like the best alternative to actual sex i think..

[Honeydew]

I personally prefer oral to fingering, but both at the same time is my favorite (considering we haven't had vaginal sex...which I am sure will take the cake once we get good at it :P) I was incredibly shy when my boyfriend first started fingering me, he was my first boyfriend and no one had ever done that kind of anything. You just always have to remember to take it slow and be patient, if you rush anything you'll be left in pain (emotionally and physically) with bad memories.

[richiered]

The most important thing it taking your time, no good if you are waiting for someone to come into your room or walk up the alley.

the first time you Need to spend a lot of time kissing and gently rubbing against and touching each other so you are in the mood, most girls get wet easily if they are relaxed. Spend a lot of time lightly rubbing her whole pussy and around the clit, you will know when she is ready for a finger to be inserted as she will feel very warm and wet.
Dont even try if she is not naturally wet and she wont like it.
Just put it in, then take it out again and continue to rub her up and down her lips then try again, I'm telling you patience is the secret.

Dont go to fast or spend to long, come out again and ressume rubbing her up and down her lips, ask her did she like it, if she says yes, dont just stick your finger in again, ask her does she want you to do it again, if she says yes it will be much better, and I can gaurantee wetter as she is the one who wants it now.

if she didnt like it, ask her why, maybe she was still too dry and cant get wet enough naturally, you will then need to look at some kind of lubricant.

girls you in order to prevent your first fingering from someone else being unpleasent, you need to know your body, fingering yourself and knowing what you like is the only way, every gf i have had has told me that, know what makes you wet, and your experience will be much nicer for you and your bf

[penelope8]

well... I'm a virgin but I do masturbate regularly... clitoral stimulation mostly...

recently I've been fingering myself (which btw I don't think is pleasurable at all), cause reading some of the posts about your first time and how it may hurt and how you think your partners penis won't go in, last night I tried this dildo that was the thickest thing I ever stuck in there... (haha the only other thing I stuck before were my fingers!)

so... there I was feeling the new different sensations, but never orgasmed (I had orgasmed like 5 min before due to clitoral stimulation)... I fell the dildo go past what I think was my hymen (I've checked it with a mirror a couple of times) and then it slided in/out pretty easily... well... then I decided I was over (without having another orgasm) and stopped, but tryed to enter myself with the thing again and as soon as I did it, this clear non-smelling fluid came out... about 1 tablespoon I guess haha...

now, I know about female ejaculation and that is what I guess the fluid was, but, isn't that supposed to happen when you orgasm??? CAUSE THIS THING HAPPENED JUST WHEN I GOT THE THING IN FOR THE SECOND TIME!!

anyways, if anyone knows anything, let me know!!

[teenagelovin]

okay well my boyfriend has fingered me a lot in the past, using both 1 and 2 fingers, but today he fingered me while we were sitting on the couch and when he removed his fingers, there was blood on them. i looked at his fingernails, thinking he might have scratched me and they weren't that long. could he have broken my hyman?