Fingering 101

[finewine]

wow, I can see that, feel that.. yeah I can feel that....done that.. it feels so good not to hold back.

[Alspals69]

This is very interesting, i've never set out to do this. I will have to have a go at it though, i love the idea.

[yetagainsorrows]

Little to the left Alspals69, oooohhhh yeaaaaahhhh, right there, more baby, more, ahhhhhhhh

[uncreativename]

ne1 think stimulating the clit directly's way to intense??

[missphoebes]

well, depending on how you do it, there are different answers to this. if you lick her clit, it shouldnt be too sensitive, especially if you do it lightly. if youre talking about manually stimulating her, then i would have to say it depends on the girl. Most girls i know masturbate by rubbing just above or just below their clit in a circular motion. Its the way i do it, and it always works for me. Be gentle with her unless she tells you otherwise, and maybe try rubbing her clit through her panties before you do it directly. Depending on her response, you will know what to do next.

[oxErikaxo]

its ok your girlfriend probably wont know what the hell shes doing either. its nothing to get all worked up about. look at some porn just to see what one looks like and when youre with your gf, just play around and experiment. first times are always a little awkward at first, but it gets better with time.

[joker2k5]

no no no porn is wrong, people who havn't experienced sex shouldn't look at porn as it gives them the wrong idea about sex, I mean come on who actually does have sex like they do on porn movies usually its "Man pushing woman around doing what he wants and cums in her face" Is that how you all treat your wives/girlfriends/partners/toys no You shouldn't do this. I (me) Havn't experienced sex, Only fingering once and when I did this she put her hand over mine and pushed my fingers in further (what is this "dry humping" I don't understand what this word means) but I havn't had sex and looking at porn I don't no how 2 have sex now? I mean.. I dunno....

[missphoebes]

dry humping is when you rub up against eachother with clothes on or just panties. when you grind against eachother, but there is no nudity or actual touching of genitals (theres always a layer of fabric or two inbetween the two of you) does this answer your question?

ps, not all porn is bad, some porn is actually very arousing, and not all adult films can be categorised as impersonal and chauvenistic. try

[missphoebes]

sorry, accidentally hit enter, try some good old fashioned girl on girl action if you get turned off by cum shots!

[uncreativename]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (oxErikaxo @ June 20 2005,23:29)]its ok your girlfriend probably wont know what the hell shes doing either. its nothing to get all worked up about.

i am a girl lol...my bf touches my clit directly and it hurts soo much...i am glad that miss phoebes brought up how other girls masturbate...i was beginning to think i was rlly weird for rubbing just above my clit and also just below - w/e i feel like! *feels normal and happy!*