Fingering 101

[crazy_guy69]

ok dude heres ur solution! download sum porn! and watch it and find out where it is! lol do go trying to finger her round the top area u wont find shit, go low u'll find it! search around she might like it!

[Teknics]

Alright. This is a LONG topic. here's the BEST answer. Read all the other posts. lol. but seriously.. JUST ASK HER WHAT SHE WANTS AND TO SHOW YOU! NOTHING can go wrong that way.. be gentle though and only 1 finger at first. make sure shes wet.. if shes not play with her nipple a bit and kiss her neck and such.. tease hrer

drew

[adobourx]

I love getting fingered by a guy. *I think it's really important to remember to have your nails clipped really short. *And of course, make sure your hands are clean. *We don't want any infections going on afterwards. *I don't know the "right" way to get fingered, but I can tell you what I liked. *I really liked having him reach down there first, and getting his fingers wet, rubbing me a little. *Then when the girl is worked up from that, that's when you want to insert one finger in and start fingering her. *And I know, for me, personally, I let my guy know what I liked, by reaching down and holding his hand there... *Or sometimes, moving his hand to hit just the right spot. *Just be open, clean, safe, and communicate with each other! *Have fun! *

[lordroad]

I found the best way is to lower your hand over her whole genital area and press down slightly, then turn either your middle or index finger inside your palm and feel for the opening. Then just caress the opening for a bit, if she wants more, she will guide your finger in... then (in my experience) she starts to get wet and you can go deeper, and the rest is academic.

[Nurse Naddy]

It's true....when you get over the nerves of "finding the right hole" it's not hard at all.

First of all, there are 3 holes, but the urethra (which is easily seen at the tip of most mens penises) are very small and often hard to find on a woman, you don't need to worry about getting that whole mixed up. So, you are down to the anus and the vagina. If you start from the mons pubis (where all of her pubic hair is just above the labia and clitoris) and work your way down you'll be okay.

When you are ready, try sliding on finger between her labia. There is no reason why you have to jump right into fingering. Play around with her for a bit, explore, find out what she's like down there and what other areas excite her. She'll be very wet before you know it (which is great for lubrication). Then when you are both ready slide you finger down along the clit and just keep following down pushing slightly inward and your finger with glide easily into her whole.

Do go nice and slow because if she is a virgin it can be uncomfortable and talk to her about what she is feeling. Ask her what she likes, tell her its okay with you for her to show you and tell you. Open communication seems awkward sometimes during sexual moments, but once you get used to it, it makes the experience so much better for both parties!

Have fun!

[Pelezo]

My Tip :

Stay rubbing the clit, thats what I do, not all women like you to actually "finger" them (as far as I know with the amount of.. nevermind); anyways theres like a little clipping of skin at the top of her poonani, you have to open the lips, I find that if you finger + rub the clit (Rubbing the clit during sex works GREAT) then they get the best.

[Sushini]

My question: How long should it take for a girl to orgasm during fingering? I'm just asking cause me and my g/f have a NYE partae goiong on, and we've talked and we want to try it. I got most of my answeres from the other posts, but i dont know this one. Oh and my other question: If it hurts or feels uncomftable do girls wanna talk about it and see whats wrong or do they just wanna forget?

Thanks so much guys!

[monie]

Ok. EVERY GIRL IS DIFFERENT!!! There is no set time for a girl to orgasm, and most wont from vaginal stimulation. And whether or not a girl will talk about how it feels, that depends on the girl and her level of experience and maturity.

By the way, whats a NYE partae???

[Sushini]

NYE patae = New Years Eve Party. Sorry about that, just seeing if there was an average, your right though everyone is different.

Cheers

[missphoebes]

ok, I can give you some tips. fingering is the only way I can have an orgasm, and if you do it right, you can get your girl to ejaculate. I'm not kidding, I don't have one friend who "can't" do it. Its just that most guys cant figure it out. Start by running your fingers over her labia, lightly, and kiss her neck or breasts. When she starts moving her hips towards you and/ or pushing your hand in more, then get your finger wet by either licking it or running it up from her vaginal opening toward her clit, she should be wet. (dry humping will make sure that most of this is soaked up by her panties, so dont do it before you finger her) ease one finger in and slide it in and out a few times. when she gets really wet and wants more, give her two fingers, and leave your fingers in. this is the hard part, but try it. push your fingers all the way in and make a "come here" motion, lightly, at first, and when you feel a sort of a change, like she gets all tight and starts grabbing at your arms, you push down lightly on her abdomen, right above her pubic bone, and bend your fingers more and more, like youre trying to touch your fingertips to your palm. tell her not to hold back. some girls hold back because they feel like they are going to pee, but its not pee, its female cum, and it feels amazing. be sure to put a towel down first, and expect lots of phone calls afterwords telling you that youre a god in the sack. (be sure nails are trimmed, and that youve got clean hands.)