Fingering 101

[honeyb16]

i find it very pleasurable, and didnt hurt at all and im a virgin. suppose im lucky!!!! jokes.

[demonbuttercup]

im w/ Honey i was fingered when i was a virgin and it didn't hurt... it felt very good
if u are wondering whats down there and instead of just probing and poking around like one person said maybe decide to give her oral that way u are right down there looking at it and can see what stimulation feels good to her or not.
just remember that b4 u start poking around make sure she is wet enough or it will hurt.
hope this helps

[Hello]

another thing you could try is stroking along the outside of the whole of her genital area, along the vague line of the lips of the hole, this way, u tease and make her wetter, and at the same time (by listening to her breathing and reacting to the grasping of her hand etc) you can find which spots she enjoys the most, use long gentle strokes and occasionally change to small circles, in concentrate4d areas once you know where she like it best. If your anything like i was, then going down on her might not be appropriate yet, it takes time, and even being able to see the area in detail doesnt help a great amount all the time

but as one dude said, communicate with her, she should know what she wants, cause she most probably has masturbated at some point in her life, asn so knows how to do it.

good luck, and have fun!

[Stephanie083099]

Who told you there were 3 holes, when you see the vagina you will know where the hole is, its not as hard as you think it is.dont only finger her in the hole, go around the clit area, for a lot of girls that their G spot, they like it a lot, it is for me, do a variety, circular rubs, in the hole, around the clit, once you begin, you will know what to do. dont worry about it.

[girlygirl]

Technically, there are three holes: the vagina, the anus and the urinary opening. However, the urinary opening is barely visible, and the vagina and the anus are pretty easy to tell apart.

Stephanie, the G-spot and the clitoris are not the same thing. The term "G-spot" is often misused to refer to any area of a woman's body that is especially sensitive, but it actually refers to a specific area inside the vagina. You can read more about it here:

the G-spot

[Stephanie083099]

wow, i didnt know that, you learn something new everyday, thanks for fixing that for me.

[liloldme]

Whispeing in ears works wonders too... for me anyway. And if your partner puts their hand on the bare flesh of your back while he does it, yeah, Thats nice.

[gbgal]

hi-
my bf and i are ready to have sex. i am 20 and still a virgin, i've never even been fingered. can you give me some tips on the best positions, and how/if i should help guide him in?? i would like to make this an enjoyable experience for us both!


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[Stephanie083099]

I dont like to be fingered, I like to be played with, if that makes any sense. I like to be played with the outside and not the inside, when my b/f sticks his fingers inside, it doesnt do much for me. If you want to know more I recently wrote step by step in another post. Maybe the moderater can help with this.

[Shorty43]

The "best position" varries between couples. I personally like positions that allow deeper penetration. Also, I love getting fingered, I think it sounds kind of nasty, but it sure feels great to me. I'd suggest fingering before sex. I've never had to use lubricant just because I get so wet from being fingered.

Use a condom, have fun. That is the best advice I have. I feel that when you have sex, maybe you plan a date and birth control, but the act itself, you just have to roll with the punches.