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You're on the right track. I hope you haven't rushed to the finish line though and omitted all the stuff in between. Yes or no, everyone should take a (refresher) course by reading the how-to articles here:
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I personally love when my boyfriend fingers me
I am a virgin and so is he.. before me he had never fingered a girl before either Just make sure your nails are cut short.. cause thats just gross and you'd prob scratch her if you have freddie coogar nails I am really tight... but to me pain is pleasure so even though it hurts i love it I'm pretty sure since your girlfriend isn't a virgin she isn't as tight... so just explore when you're down there you'll eventually find it.. its not hard. Now the 3 holes thing.. one is the anal the other is where she pees.. and the other is strictly for the penis.. you can see that one and the anal but not the one that she urinates through.. so don't freak you'll never find that one... i'm a girl and i don't know where that one is.. i wouldn't recommend looking at porn pictures cause i'm pretty sure theres are all loose and look different anyways |
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My advice is this...
DONT PLAN ANYTHING! I am going out with a virgin now, she loves me fingering her, i have gone down on her too and she likes that, you just get by. I have big hands and every girl that i have 'fingered' have ended up wetter than the last. Self taught is the way to go. |
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Fingering is fine as foreplay, leading up to penetration it gives you a chance to get ready and for the guy to know you're ready, but I think too many guys fancy themselves as amatuer gynocologists.
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Here is some reading for you on the matter that will enlighten and inform you: The Anatomy of the Female "O", Answered by Brandye & Dancingdoc2 & Inspired by Godiva Female Sexual Response For Women Only- Help! Why Can't He Make Me Orgasm? How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?
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Life without dancing? I don't think so...... The feet may learn the steps; yet only the spirit can dance! Dancing is the fastest way to get a girl alone and into your arms in public. The Tango smolders and burns. It ignites the heart, the soul, and yes, the libido. Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning how to Dance in the Rain! Dance as if nobody is watching. |
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To be honest I've never been a big fan of being fingered, especially with new bf's. I think men forget that although there isn't really much effort on their part having one or several fingers pushed into you can be extremely uncomfortable. When a man has made me orgasm just by using his hand in tends to be by massaging and rubbing the lips of my vagina or by sliding a finger just inside.
When a man has normal vaginal sex you need to manouver into a postion where he can penetrate you comfortably it's quite easy to control and you can see what's happening. But when a guy is fingering you especially when you're snogging you can't actually see what that hand up your skirt is doing, guys often loose the run of themselves and just pushe fingers into you. I actually kind of associate fingering as something you do as kids first starting to have sex. Now I know a lot of people will say that its just a matter of communication and that's true to a point, but common sense will tell you that if your struggling to get your fingers inside a woman then it shouldn't really be neccessary for the woman to verbalise her discomfort. For me when i snog a guy, him stroking me between my legs is very pleasurable and when i do get wet and aroused it's his cock I want not his fingers. |
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