Female doesn't orgasm

[honeyb16]

i do know my own body, and we have done foreplay, i was just wondering if there was any practical personal advice. thankyou for your advice, im not rushing into it, i was just curious as to why i didn't cum thats all

[Stephanie083099]

You're not abnormal if that is what you were thinking, its perfectly normal to not orgasm during sex. When you do orgasm you WILL know. I was like that too but what I started to do is when you are having sex, play with yourself a little, it helps you orgasm during sex, and it feels great, try it, it worked for me.

[jurni]

Alright, I can't even tell you how embarrassed I am to ask this, but dangit...I want to know, and this is the best place that I've been able to talk to people.

Whats it feel like to orgasm? I want to know from both guys and girls.

I'm 21 and haven't done it yet, and due to being in a new relationship that has started out as long distance, my bf hasn't had a chance to help me out.

We usually end up having phone sex, and he comes every time. I LOVE to hear him when he does, but its like...it sounds like he's in pain almost, and then pure exstasy. And I have fun when we do it, and feel good after, but I still haven't had "it" happen.

I've recently bought a vibrator, because manual I just couldn't get into masturbating. Its done WONDERS, but I still dont "think" that I've come (#1 sign that I haven't).

I mean, I'll hit a spot, and feel the pleasure start to grow througout my body, and then my legs will clamp up, or my upper boddy will start to jerk without me being able to control it. Sometimes on the spot it'll feel a little good, so I'll keep it there, and it'll grow and grow...like a burning, but a GREAT burning. But...it'll just go away after a few minutes, or I'll stop because I dont think I'll get there. Am I just stopping too soon?

I just don't know what to expect when it does happen. I'm just curious as to how it feels and what its like, I guess

My guy will be here in a week, and he's all set on making me come. Frankly, I don't mind not getting off while I'm alone, I'd much rather experience it with him my first time. But I just wanted to hear from the pros what this phenomena is like to experience.

Its a lame Q, I know, but thanks to anyone that answers

[girlygirl]

Orgasm is a very difficult sensation to describe. However, the description has been attempted in this thread:
orgasm 101

[Maria19]

Hi, my name is Shankenia and I never had an orgasm when I make love with my boyfriend.I told him I never orgasm and he says he would do whatever I want to help me orgasm. I love to make love with him behind me but still I don't orgasm. We tried with him on top, me on top, still no orgasm. Help its really gets to me. Is there any postions that he can reach my G-spot with his penis?

[Hello]

that very much depends on what size ur boyfriend is, and what shape, there are many different positions, but at the ned of the day u can only try. maybe u could get to to play with ur clit.

also, dont be too worried about it, because as im sure u''l see elsewhere on the site, many women cant orgasm through intercourse, its something totally up to u and him, just experiment and find a position that woprks

[leelee]

Me and my boyfriend are both still virgins, and the only things that we have done together are hand and oral stimulation. BUT, i dont know if ive ever reached an orgasm..everyone says that when you do, you'll know, and im always left unsure. when my boyfriend gives me oral, its nice but not orgasmic-nice... nothing much happens.... i dont think hes doing something wrong, but then again i dont know. I actually prefer fingering, but even then, nothing majorly exciting happens. For me, its more pleasure to rub up against him then oral or fingering... i dont know whats wrong with me and why i dont orgasm.. is this abnormal or is this it?