Hurts after deep fingering

[leelee]

Ive never had sex with anyone but me and my boyfriend do do sexual stuff, like fingering and oral sex. WEll i noticed that my side has been hurting when i do normal things somethings and it feels like its from deep fingering. Its on the higher right side of my lower pelvic are, and it just below the belly button, but to the right. It hurts like i pulled something, or some discomfort like that, i really worries me since it first happened when i was being fingered... does anyone know what this can be??
i really dont want to go to my doc's cause i feel too uncomfortable with her. HELP

[ItalStall]

I'm not a doctor, but normal fingering shouldn't be causing you pain. If his nails are well-clipped and he is not getting over-enthusiastic there might be some physical problem which you should get checked out.

Most importantly - if you are not comfortable with your doctor, get another doctor. Your relationship with your doctor is far too important to your well-being to feel this way towards her.

Don't worry, people change doctors all the time - it's no big deal!

[?wiseman?]

ItalStall's right. Find a doctor that you are comfortable with. It could be any number of things from some sort of infection, to a muscle strain. May sound strange because they're far more common in men, but the location you describe could also indicate a hernia.

[Brandye]

You have good advice. If this pain remains with you see a doctor. The position you describe is about where your ovary is. Just as men scream when "kicked in the balls" our gonads are also very sensitive - just better protected. It would take really deep fingering but this happens. It sometimes happens inadvertatly during a pelvic exam.

It would cause a shrp pain but it should go away quickly. Id there is persistent pain, see a doctor. Andm by the way, most of the mutual genital massage pleasure is on the outside - fingers that deep do nothing for you.

[leelee]

oh its not like a sharp constant pain...
its just something i thought was odd..
its more of a discomfort then pain but its unsual but because it doesnt feel like something painful then i didnt think of it as so much. it never really happens not even when i press on it, but i was just curious... im a health freak so i panic a lot.... im really scared bout doctors and i dont know where i can find a doctor im more comfortable with, i just always find them scary (childhood memories)

Ive got another question..maybe i should make another post but Ill ask it here anyways...
when we first started, i touched my boyfriend's penis and it was very unlubricated (we had just started) and then i didnt realized but i touched myself too afterwards, just around the clit, and when i realized i started to panic... like i said, i AM the biggest health freak, so i was wondering if there is any chance of pregnancy?

[SammyMouse]

just to try put ure mind at rest, i doubt it very much that u will b pregnant from that.

you might want to go get checked out as u seem to worry a lot!

[UULC]

leelee,

During ANY sexual activity in the virginal cavity, the muscles will contract. If you have an orgasm or if the fingering is enthusiastically done (creating friction), it can create what appears to be ‘discomfort’. This almost feels like you pulled a muscle, so to speak, which in itself is fine and will fade unless somehow you have a mild infection (Urinary, etc) or other issues that need to be addressed by a medical expert.

As far as getting pregnant, normally semen or pre-cum that hits the ‘air’ is not fertile enough to get you pregnant, but that is not 100% either . Since I am not a MD, I would advise you to find a OB/GYN you see on a regular basis or visit a local free clinic that can help you get checked when in doubt.

Sometimes it is much worse sitting and wondering then stopping by a free clinic to get the answers from a medical expert. <smile>

AT