Sex Ed & Youth 101

[7inches4u]

Originally Posted by pinklady9

Someone help!

Whats the chances of getting pregnet if he wears a condom. its both of our first time and im researching to get all the info i can get. i got till sunday. help!!!!

well, people like Planned Parenthood and other condom advocates will tell you it's a ridiculously low number like .1% on the other side, people who are so afraid of even talking about sex will tell you it's 10-15%. in truth, it's neither. in between. the most objective studies i've found suggest about a 1-2% chance.
just remember what a condom is. it gets held up as the miracle cure to teen pregnancy and supposedly is the keystone tool in "sexual liberation", but once all the flowery left-wing stuff gets stripped away, it's just a 79 cent piece of latex that's thinner than a sheet of paper. be careful trusting your future to it.
it sounds like some corny thing from american pie, but try doubling them the first time. not only does it virtually guarantee you will not get pregnant, it well let him last longer.

condoms are great, but dont get suckered into all the stuff you hear about "safe sex". there's no such thing. you're having "safer sex". big difference. condoms are not carte blanche

[dancingdoc2]

DO NOT DOUBLE UP ON CONDOMS.

This is not recommended. It is bad advice because the skin of the two will rub together and often cause a breakdown.

Please read this:

Birth Control Failure Rates

[Maximilian]

speaking as a seventeen year old now,

between all the mush thats been pushed in my face: sex ed at school, commercials and what every adult says.. whats really stuck is "if your gonna do it, use a condom"

having lost my virginity i can't imagine having sex without a condom, its the one thing i've really learned, i think that if i got a girl pregnant ide cut off my... uh.. cut off my marbles!
don't really know so much about individual STIs... everything a woman can get a man can get too... and they're all hell
personally i dont think that i need to be "scared" into using a condom anymore, not that i feel that way, but learning about individual infections and diseases may just do that... (that is something that they aim to do in sex ed @ school... scare people into using condoms, on the account that instincts tell them to respond to fear)


parents should give their children a support system, something to rely on, a life line.

personally, my dad has given me the feeling that i can really on him.
-he says that if i ever have a question about sex, that he can talk to me about it, and show me some of his pornos...
-he has told me that he would rather have me having sex in our home with his knowledge than in my car or on the beach
-he says that if i'm ever at a party and i need a sober driver that i can call him... no matter what time, what the situation, no questions he will pick me up, which i have taken him up on
-before he knew i was going to parties he said that he would like to show me how to drink *ie get me really drunk and throw up so i know my limits* however i never took him up to his offer, partly because i did not feel comfortable to.

And thats exactly the point, even if trustful parents offer the most secure, embarrassment-free, way of talking to them about "growing up," the teenager will probably not make the jump to talk have a three hour conversation about giving oral or what ever it is... but just knowing that there is a lifeline to really on, so they can be safe.
Even though i've never gotten drunk with my dad, or talked to him intimately about the acts of sex, i know that he's totally cool about me having sex.


unfortunately i think that most teenagers are trying to keep their parents from knowing that they are sexually active, or keep them from knowing that they are going to parties which provides an unsafe atmosphere. Teens should know that their parents would rather have them home safe, than drinking and driving, even if their parents had to wake up at two in the morning to drive them home. Teens should know that their parents would rather have them having sex at home than out on th beach.

I hope that all teenagers can make that connection with their parents, and always know that there is something to fall back onto.


we all know that parents want their children to be safe, but i hope that parents realize that TEENS ARE GONNA SNEAK OUT, PARTY AND HAVE SEX REGARDLESS OF WHAT PARENTS SAY... Parents should tell their children that its okay to have sex BUT you should wait till you're married, and its okay to have a drink responsibly BUT you should wait till you're 21, even if you tell them to wait, and to drink responsibly and that they shouldn't really do it, parents should provide a life line.
teens would trust their parents enough to tell them that s/he is having sex with his/her partner, teens would trust their parents enough to tell them that they are going to a party and not be worried about getting grounded.
This way parents know where their children are and teenagers know that there is always a safe place to have sex and that they should never have to make the decision to drink and drive.


Even with that all said
i dont really think that im gonna ask him how he likes to stimulate mom, or what his favorite position is, or how to find the g spot... i just don't feel comfortable asking that, and any teenager who does, i envy them.

and thats why i first came to SI 101, to learn to pleasure my girl
because, come on people lets be serious, where else are you gonna learn how to pleasure you sex partner. if its not in school, if its not from your parents, and all porn does is give you a hard on, you cant actually learn jack squat from porn... only jack off

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[JCAT]

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I'm new and I want to pleasure my boyfriend

[sera300]

Originally Posted by JCAT

Hey, I was just wondering if there is a right way for a woman to do it on top? And if there is, please tell..
I'm new and I want to pleasure my boyfriend

Search under topics such as new to sex.

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[KMB]

I know I'm glad I havn't had sex yet cause I'm still having feelings about the guy I'm with but at the same time I hope it happends I trust him and he says he trusts me. I feel safe with him and good with him.

He said he didn't want kids but I'll give him a while until he's a little older and see what happends there same with me I want kids but I'm kind of young and not exactly ready and don't know anything.

I might tell my mom as much as it's emarassing to tell her that I might have to call my Gyn she said I should let her know when I'm ready for sex I should contact and visit her before I do anything.

Of course it's been a while since I've seen my Gyn no matter I'm going to go to her.

[sera300]

At your age it's not uncommon for people to have feeling of not wanting kids; mainly men. When they want to settle down they change their thinking. If you can talk to your mom fine. If not just make an appointment for your annual.

Additionally, do not think that sex+love=marriage + kids.

[KMB]

Oh man, I'm not exactly sure I want to dump him I mean he just called me and he was crying so hard. I hate to have guys cry on something I did.

I do want to show him how much I love him and always will.

I know we can work things out, taking time is what love's all about.

I know Sera that I should wait for marriage and kids and I will I'm just talking about having sex and being on Birth Control.

Sorry for confussing you all