Too fast?

[spikey0922]

The other day,I was making out with my gf in her room and we started taking off our clothes. I went down on her,fingered her,and sucked on her neck which she said she loved alot.

Then she went down on me to give me a bj...I cumed in like 20-30 seconds...I was hoping it would last for minutes and minutes..Since she doesnt swallow,I warn her before I get ready for ejaculation...5,10,15 seconds...then I tell her its time...And she laughs in a way which I feel stupid for going so fast.

Then we did other stuff,and she went down on me again,and it happened in like 20 seconds...

Any way to make it last a much longer time? This is my first time ever having a bj. I absolutely love the feeling but its way to short. I wasnt sure if its because I was hard for a very long time. But when I start making out with a girl,I get hard fast which will stay like that for a long period of time untill I have action down there,which I dont want to cum for a while...however,its so fast.

Im hoping when I have intercorse with her,I will not cum so fast where I cant have enough time to please her...

[xx22xx]

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The first one may be of more help to you, although they are more directed towards intercourse, but you'll need that in the future, right? Just read around before posting.

[xx22xx]

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[?wiseman?]

Spikey, don't worry about it. If you've just started, it's to be expected. You're experiencing some new sensations and you'll soon be able to control yourself much longer. In the meantime, if you really want to try to extend, read the links provided by xx22xx. You can also let your mind wander and not focus on what's happening. Think about baseball, your homework due tomorrow, etc. It kind of defeats the whole purpose, but will work if you practice.

[spikey0922]

yea your right..I was taking the advice from the movie American Pie 2 where the girl told him to think about chairs,or something...But it was something new to me which was very exciting..I tried not looking which made it longer a bit. Once I looked I got ready fast.

[NewbieDude]

Yeah dude..dont ever look down there lol...i can last for a long time normally...but if i look im guna cum like INSTANTLY LOL