Could she be pregnant?

[magic53]

Me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time a couple weeks ago and we are both virgins and when i "blew my load" i did it so it went on her stomach but I might have got my hand in it a little and then I fingered her and later we also had sex again without a condom. Her cherry hasn't been popped or anything either. How do I know if she might be pregnant or anything?

[?wiseman?]

Magic, you're now going to face what many of us on this board have faced. You'll need to wait a couple days and then your g/f needs to take a pregnancy test. Her "cherry" being popped has nothing to do with it. Having unprotected sex afterwards is a big NO-NO. You may have "blown your load," but you still had soda in the straw. Hmmmm, what a metaphore. In any event, there's a chance of pregnancy, and you'll have to suffer the wait.

PLEASE, all of you younger folks on this board remember something. There are some of us who have been where you are today. Learn from our mistakes. I may be much older than you, but sex, diseases and pregnancy was around when I was your age too.

I spent many months in my youth (before over the counter tests were available) worried about my g/f being pregnant and I didn't even have sex until I was in college. Only a little bit of rubbing, cumming on the belly, etc. "if I don't penetrate and I don't cum in her, no way she's gonna get pregnant." WRONG!! Those little guys are sneaky.

I didn't know I had to worry about AIDs way back then, but there were alot of sleepless nights waiting for a call that my g/f had her period.

The next time you're intimate with your g/f, remember how this time of anxiety feels. USE PROTECTION!!! Only time will tell Magic, but you can't undo what's already been done. You can only control your future actions.

Hang in there and I wish you the best-

[Brandye]

A bare penis in an protected vagina is what people do when they want children. A pregnancy test will be reasonably accurate a week after intercourse. Then you have however long to wait until her period is due. Lousey way to spend your teen years.

If this experience leaves you both in a condition you want to try again use a condom, with some spermicidal jelly inside it (not just what is on a lubed condom) and an applicator of jelly or foam in her. The jelly inside the condom will make it feel more "natural" for you and will also protect against the little devils that ry to swim around the end.

And in the meantime drop by a planned parenthood office and pick up some brochures - after talking with the staff.

[SanRemo0621]

i thought my gf was pregnant once....we went through about 2 weeks thinking maybe she is maybe she isnt...then we thought she was again and the blood test came back positive...we went to planned parenthood and their blood test and preg test came back negative....and nothing was found in the ultrasound... so shes not preg

but the moral of this story is the wait is HORRIBLE. be safe and be careful

i have a question for the ladies....my gf hasnt gotten her period in 2 and a half months...and based on the story above we know shes not pregnant...what could be wrong with her??? shes seeing a doctor friday

[Brandye]

San Remo,

She could be pregnant. She could be scared periodless. She could have an ear infection. We cannot tell from here; listen to the doctor.

[SanRemo0621]

i just don't see how she COULD be...like why would a blood test, a pregnancy test, AND an ultrasound not pick up anything??? i dont get it...i don't think she is..cuz it was a month after we had sex when she went for all these tests...actually probably over a month
i know ur not a doctor so i dont expect an answer back or anything..i trust planned parenthood ya know?

[girlygirl]

There are other things besides pregnancy that can cause a late period. It is most likely nothing serious--maybe she started exercising more, maybe she's under stress, or maybe she's just irregular. But, then again, it might be something more serious. Whatever is causing it, she should get to a doctor, so that you two can stop worrying.

[Stephanie083099]

well, let me start on, why are you not using any protection, pulling out is not safe at all. If you are ready to have sex, you are ready to wear a condom.
If you are sure that none of it went inside of her then you are ok. If it all went on her stomach, the sperm dies once it hits air, so if you fingered her afterwards then you should be fine, unless some accidently went inside her before you pulled out.
You have to wait a couple of weeks but get a pregnancy test, and condoms, its better safe then sorry. Be careful.

[girlygirl]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Stephanie083099 @ April 03 2003,23:28)]the sperm dies once it hits air, so if you fingered her afterwards then you should be fine

Wrong. Sperm need moisture to survive, but there is plenty of moisture in the seminal fluid surrounding them. How do you think artificial insemination is possible?

[SammyMouse]

has none of u thought of the morning after pill?
as long as its taken within 72 hours of sex its fine!

id say if u dont want a baby u go to the doctors NOW!!!