1st Time Pain & Bleeding 101

[SammyMouse]

well the bleedin is completely normal, it happened to me.

its just the hymen breaking.
but the skin hanging out, i never had that so i dont knw

i would suggest leaving it alone, and going to see the doc.
they will knw wot it is, and wot to do with it.

dont pull it off! whateva u do, just see wot doc says, sorry no other advice on the skin front!

[SammyMouse]

he will knw to take it slow.
it hurt me, but only a little, it wasnt as bad as ppl make it out to be.
i did bleed after wards, but only a little bit.
it only hurt when he first entered me.
being fingered can make a difference, although id been fingered b4, and his penis goes in further then his fingers and hits different parts, so dont expect no pain becoz uve been fingered.
dont worry too much, just relax and take it steady!

[yippi]

The skin is probably the remnants of her hymen - a doctor can remove it easily.

In any case, if she is still beeding she should definitely go see the doc.

[iexcite]

lube such as KJ Jelley well help greatly. After your first time it will feel so good to have him inside you. if you have been fingered frequently it most likley won't hurt as much. good luck!

[iexcite]

if you are bleeding your first few times could it be that you may be a bit too tight still or he is a little big? it may take a few times to subside. to be safe see a doctor.

[honeyb16]

thankyou. it didnt hurt as much as i thought and imagined. we have done it since and it was great, no pain and im so happy i have dont it now. i didnt even bleed after, although there was little blood on the condom, is this normal?

[lilangel130]

I HAD SEX FOR THE FIRST TIME 3 WEEKS AGO..THERE WAS ALOT OF FOREPLAY GOING ON BEFORE HAND..WHEN HE WENT IN HE DIDN'T HURT AT ALL

[WildF17]

Hi Guys,
I would like to thank you first for your help. *My gf and I have dated now for over three months, we are both 20 years old, and we are both virgins. *She has let me finger her for about 2 months now, but tonight something different happened. *I tried a new technique, angling downward more, and started going pretty fast. *She loved it and was screaming for more, so of course I gave her more. *When we were all finished up, we laid down together for awhile, and when we turned on the lights to get dressed there was blood on the sheets. *She went to the bathroom to examine and everything, and said that it felt like a cut. *I have been reading other posts about the hymen breaking and am wondering if that is what it was, or if it is just possible that I cut her with my fingernail, or just stretched her out or something. *I can not even fit two fingers inside of her, she is that tight. *The fingering was never painful for her but at the end she said it felt a little sore. *We talked about it afterwards and she said that it felt like it got pulled or something, and that there is a cut...but there was quite a bit of blood. *I know that this is the first time she has bleed as a result of sexual activity, but I have fingered her extensively before. *I just want to know what exactly happened, the consequences (if any) of it, how it can be fixed (if need be) and if it is normal. *Any opinions, thoughts or answers you guys can provide will be greatly appreciated. *Thanks a lot guys, I genuinely appreciate your responses.

[Shorty43]

It is pretty rare that anyone would bleed from being fingered. However, if the bleeding stopped and your girlfriend isn't in pain or experiencing anything unusual I wouldn't been overly worried. If she is concered for any reason, she should go to a doctor. And yes, it is possible her hymen broke if she is a virgin.

[Brandye]

Most likely: her hymen was torn. No big deal.

Other possibility: a little too rough and your finger nail cut her. Not much of a deal either.

You tongue can do less damage.