1st Time Pain & Bleeding 101

[Shorty43]

Hi everyone. I thought I'd bring an old topic back. It kind of caught my eye. Anyway, I did bleed the first time I had sex. I also bled ever so slightly the second time I had sex which was two days later. This is not unusual, I took the time to ask about it when it happened. If after your first few times you do not stop bleeding them something is wrong and you really need to go to the doctor.

[tiffaniesgurl]

I bled the first time I was penetrated. Shorty has a good point though, if you continue to bleed then you might want to go get that checked on, and don't be embarrased to go.

[worriedfemale8083b]

well i bled after sex and i have no idea what happend can someone please help me???

[xx22xx]

Try reading the above responses. Then make a doctors appointment.

It could either be from not enough lubrication or broke your hymen or maybe something else. Only a doctor can tell you for sure.

[Shorty43]

worriedfemale8083b - you sound young, if I'm wrong I'm sorry. I wouldn't worry too much, my guess is that this was your first time having sex and your hymen broke. That is normal. If I'm wrong and you have had sexual experience, go to the doctor.

[girlygirl]

If it was your first time, there is probably no reason to go to a doctor. While not everyone bleeds their first time, it is not at all unusual. The only reasons you should worry are if it wasn't your first time or if you continued to bleed for a long time afterword.

[honeyb16]

i am going to be having sex soon for the first time, and of course i can't wait, im really excited, but i am worried about the pain, is it that bad, im really nervous about that. i haven't used tampons before, but i have been fingered, i would be very greatful for any female advice on this, becuase i am worried. but very ready lol

[flower]

hm...it seams you cannot wait to have your first time.
I can only give you advice from my expirience,of course.
On my first time i didn´t bleed at all.I also didn´t use any tampons but i was in sport for a while so i heard that could be a reason.But my partner was VERY gentle with me(i have to tell you that i am very sensitive on pain) and it didn´t hurt so much.I cannot tell you it didn´t hurt at all,but it was acceptable!
Just relax yourself and ask him to be very gentle(don´t be affraid to ask him to stop if it hurts you too much and to try later!That is your body.You have ful control over it!)...and don´t expect too much of the first time.At least i didn´t have any orgasm on the first time but second time and all others later were great!

[Stephanie083099]

first off you have to relax, you are excited but you are worrying yourself too much.
You probably will bleed, but dont get scared it is normal. It does hurt but it wont hurt for the whole time, (well it didnt for me) He just has to take it easy, and dont go to fast because it will hurt even more.
Its not as bad as you think, It hurts but not as bad as people make it seem. So dont worry, just take it easy, and you'll be fine.

[Drifter]

Hay guys i have a close girlfriend which iam friends with she is alittle bit younger than me and has just started having sex and is asking me heapz of questions.

first time she had it she said she bleed heapz. and it was ok after that but she bleed abit more and somtiimes lots.

she rang me last night and was abit freaking out she said she had some skin hangin from like where here vigna from the top of it to the bottom of it like from the cliturs to the bottom.

i told her it must be the skin that broke and she should be ok but iam a little worried about here so yea

the skin is hangin from like her cliturs and she said its about 3 cm long and alittle think not much she said it dosnt hert that much but abit uncomfortable i said to leave it for afew days and see what happens if it falls off or dies

i wanted to know any views or if any one has seen know or experinced this before thank you =)


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