1st Time Pain & Bleeding 101

[Brandye]

Bits of your hymen had adhered to the rim of your vaginal entrance. Not unusual.

[kmasta32]

I havE a problem with my gf she is very tight to the point that i ciant evn put half of a fngure in we both want to have sex but as soon as she feels any type of presure she tells me to stop some body please help i cant stress it enough u guys say finguring will losen her up but i can not even do that and i when ever we have forplay she gets super wet so its not like she is dry she stll has her hymen someone heeeeeelppppppppp pleeaaaaase regular fingering will not work

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[nuttychick]

Does you E key not work?

[blueyeslove]

It didn't hurt my first time (hymen was already broken) and I have been having sex for about 6 months now, two to four times a week, sometimes it hurts though when me and my partner have sex. It takes a while after feeling some pain there until his penis is already all the way in, then I am fine and dandy after that. But it feels like there is too much pressure when he's going in. Is this normal?

[pinkpanda223]

first time i had sex it did hurt and i even bleed a bit after. No matter what you do chances are you WILL be sore, it'll still be a little painful the next couple times you have sex but it gets WAYYY better. Do what people have been saying and have him finger you for a bit and then have him slowly get it in with lots of lube. Good luck...?

[pinkpanda223]

Originally Posted by blueyeslove

It didn't hurt my first time (hymen was already broken) and I have been having sex for about 6 months now, two to four times a week, sometimes it hurts though when me and my partner have sex. It takes a while after feeling some pain there until his penis is already all the way in, then I am fine and dandy after that. But it feels like there is too much pressure when he's going in. Is this normal?

Yea, i'm pretty sure it's normal, that's pretty much exactly how it is with my boyfriend and me.

[sehyma]

Originally Posted by KinkyKitty

I've tried having sex before, but we stopped because it hurt, now we are looking to try again. We're both virgins and the only thing that is keeping us this way is because I so afraid it will hurt. Does anyone know anything to make it less painful?

many girls feels hurt at the penetration of her viginal first intercourse for the first penetration of man's penis through vigin's vagina.
but the pain becomes lesser as the penertration repeated, so do not worry about that please.

[housefull]

Well, i don't mind masturbating in front of him, but i usually do it while he is busy with other parts (of me). I wouldn't just sit there in front of him doing it while he watched, it seems too... dunno. i just wouldn't feel comfortable. And plus masturbating by myself doesn't turn me on anyways.

[Sexy Chinky]

Start with a couple of fingers to relax the muscles in your vagina, then when you feel comfortable add a couple more this should open your vagina for you...