1st Time Pain & Bleeding 101

[SavannahP]

My first time was SO painful. But I was 17 and I'm only 5'2" and petite...so I am pretty small and tight

I had one of my legs up and my current bf was much more experienced than I. Once he was all the way in it stopped hurting so much. It felt better once we got going... just the initial being tense and nervous blocks out everything else, IMHO.

[TallieFairey]

I had sex for the first time a few days ago, and it hurt because of the pressure inside. Everyone says there would be a ripping feeling when the hymen broke. I did'nt feel this, and there wasnt any blood, except for a couple of splashes. I dont do much sport, i dont masturbate. I've never felt any pain before that It could have broken. Sine the first time, little bits of blood keeps coming out. I've heard that it doesn't always break the first time, but we had sex 3 times.

Help?

[CLVR-HNDS_GUY]

yeah, i say as your getting more used to doing it its stretching your hymen, thats why with the odd bit of blood.
with the last girlfriend i had who was a virgin, it took her a little while to be wet enough to enjoy sex and last for a while, we always used the lubricant to help
i think we only we did it a few times without it. make sure hes playing with you and kissing you all over and around the neck is a good place to get anyone started in the mood

[Brandye]

Tallie,

Some women's hymen breaks in stages. The first time could be a partial tear that could result in what you describe. Depending upon it tears, a bit can remain attached for several times and tear just a bit more each time around the outer edge. Get a mirror (magnifying make-up mirrors are really good) and good light and look at your self. You may find a little flap still attached somewhere at your vaginal entrance.

Please disregard the previous post. Kissing your neck will do nothing for tearing your hymen.

[iloveanimals]

first tym never hurt me at all and since that day i just went along wit the tiny bit of pain yu gt at first - wel tu me it wasnt evn pain or anything tu du wit pain - jus du it loool

[Joe6565]

My first wife and I were very uneducated about sex when we got married. We were also very conservative... almost thinking that the only reason for sex was procreation. Our honeymoon was the first intercourse for either of us. Neither of us were prepared for the amount of pain and bleeding she had. She would not have sex again for 2 months and then only reluctantly out of fear of being hurt again. Sexual differences between us grew as I kept learning about it but she staid stuck where she was. Eventually, we got a divorce.

[Cowgirl121]

okkkay! so i did have sex before...but...it did hurt a little...but then it didnt get anybetter...lik it didnt feel good...it just kept hurting...was something not right down there? I also havent had sex then that night...so will it hurt again?

[Cowgirl121]

AWWWWWWWWWWW!!! thats sooo sad!!!

[kelly7]

My friend said it hurt really bad the first time so it's making me really worried. Like I'm ready but I'm so not looking forward to the pain. ><

[20121]

My first time did hurt so bad, that I've never experienced anything like that before. I couldn't believe the pain. Anyway, after that, we had sex for 5 or 6 times, I was so tight that we could barely did the intercourse. After a couple of sex, I still felt the pain, not like the first pain but there was a pressure and I felt it was like my genital was irritated. We thought it would got better as we had sex but it just didn't. Next morning, the irritation pain was a little gone but I still didn't enjoy my sex. I'm scared of that it would be the same on our next times.