1st Time Pain & Bleeding 101

[sera300]

Originally Posted by crazyhorse_9000

Yeah shes said that she would a few times now but I think she feels awkward discussing it with another person even a doctor who speciallizes in that area. Just from knowing my girlfriend she has assumed that I would find an answer.

I would stop looking for her answers and suggest she see the doctor unless she is using this as an excuse to avoid having intercourse. If she is too immature to discuss with a female doc, she honestly may not be ready...

[Brandye]

Crazyhorse,

I have responded at your other post. Please read that and show her some of what you will find on the internet. This is a real condition, with a real name and should be addressed. She MUST discuss it with the doctor; this does not cure itself.

[gb025]

Hi there, this is something that has been bugging me for a while. I am not a virgin, by any stretch of the imagination, but last time I found myself in "that" situation, the guy in question couldn't penetrate. Now, at that point, I had not had sex for a while (just over a year), and he got a little over keen on himself, without turning me on properly. Upon reflection, I should have stopped the situation, but sometimes we dont, do we?

Am I right in thinking that the problems with penetration (he was rather large...) are down to me not being properly relaxed, and lack of lubrication/arousal, or should I be worrying about something else like involuntary contraction of the vagina muscles.... I am trying not to get myself worked up about this, and not worry about when I meet someone else. There was a little blood, only a trace, when he tried to enter me, should I be worried about that?

Sorry about this, but its been bugging me for a while, and thanks in advance for any advice, or for pointing me in the right direction!

[Lolitadream]

I'm afraid that I don't know the biology of it but what I've noticed is that if you don't have sex for a while then your vagina starts to revert to it's original shape and form (for lack of a better phrase) I'm in a long distance relationship with my partner and so we have long periods were we can't have sex. When we do get to see each other it does hurt for the first few times just like it did when we first started to have sex. I think that it's simply the fact that your body has to get used to sex again and not that anything is wrong.

[ITALIAN95]

im 15 and k i have 6.5 inches, is that enough to satisfy a woman

[ITALIAN95]

i am 15 and i have 6.5 inches. is that enough 2 satify a woman?

[sera300]

Originally Posted by ITALIAN95

i am 15 and i have 6.5 inches. is that enough 2 satify a woman?

PLEASE search the site since there are many threads just like yours...look under the beginning forums...
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/inde...tml#post180103

[touchthesky]

I don't know if anyone can help me or has any ideas on this...

Since I've lost my viginity I've attempted to have sex four or so times, but have always had to stop because it hurt too much. I thought pain was just meant to be a first time thing but now I'm not so sure it is with me. I've never bled during sex but I have been fingered and if it's gentle, it isn't painful and feels great (although sometimes it has hurt).

I'm in a long distance relationship and I've heard that the vagina can sort of return to its original size if you don't have sex for a while. I also know that some people have thicker hymens than others and I think this might be the case for me.

This is getting me down because I really want to finish having sex without it hurting! Any advice is great appreciated

[KMB]

My first time will be soon, I'm going to do everything I can from getting Pregnant.

I'm ready and so is My boyfriend of 3 years.

I am a little nervous about pain but I have fingered myself a couple times and I never wear Tampons they scare me.

So I wouldn't worry too much

[tkm_lexis]

My boyfriend and I attempted again last night to have sex, I felt him enter but oh my god..it hurt way too much to the point that I was near to tears...he didn't get far in at all, I belive he just barely made it in before he stoppped for me. My problem is..I'm on BC and he didn't have a condom...quite frankly preganancy scares me at this age...my family would kill US as well as his...
Basically I'm on seasonale...I don't get aperiod but like 4 times a year...can I go ahead and stop the pill at least long enough to have a period just so I can reassure myself?