ok, I got a question. me and my girlfriend, we've been having sex for about a month now but I am still a virgin. How is this possible? We've tryed it with and without condoms, and still nothing. What can i do?
Tue, 08/30/2005 - 08:49
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new to sex
Well I think for a girls, there's different forms of virginity.
If you've only done it anally, then you're still a virgin vaginally. If you've only done it vaginally, then you're a virgin anally.
As for guys, once the penis goes in her butt or her vagina, you've lost your virginity.
If of course you've never had your butt penetrated by another guy, I'd say you're still a virgin that way of course.
It all just depends on your definition of virginity really.
And because I have to say this, the hymen breaking or not breaking (whether it exists or not) does not equal a girl losing their virginity either.
Once the penis goes in in a consensual manner, the deed is done and the virginity is lost.
Once youve had sex, you are no longer a virgin.
And just for the record b/c I know there are people out there that feel this way, just because you're not entering the vagina doesn't mean you're still a virgin. You can lose your virginity anally just like you can vaginally.
Hi Jammer,
Okay...lol... nothing breaks for guys. Women have a hymen (a little covering of skin over part of the vagina) and that's what breaks for them. That's not always sexually related either. It can break from tampon use, sports, etc...
If you've had sex once, then you are no longer a virgin.
I do hope if you aren't using condoms that she's at least on birth control pills or the patch... unless you're ready to be parents. Just remember that BC pills don't protect you from STDs... however unlikely you might think that is. Sex is fun... protect yourself and your partner so you can enjoy it for as long as possible.
Take care.
ok, I ment to say, we're having sex and I think I'm still a virgin, how can you tell? Nothing broke, no pain at all, I'm kinda confused here. I used to think that in order for me to loose my virginity, the little skin that holds the foreskin and the penis head together, had to break, I guess I was wrong. what do u guys thing?
penetration=having sex and losing ur virginity.