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[QUOTE=Angela4436;231729]So I put this in the new to sex forum but not as many go there soooo i'm posting it here, too..

So I'm sort of new to all of this and have some basic questions.

When fooling around with a guy, do you generally do a hand job first, a blow job first, both? only one? also when you give a handjob do you HAVE to use lube?

When you give a blow job, is he supposed to be hard when you start? How long does it last usually?

Also, when he cums, where does it go if you don't want to swallow?

thanks!
any and all advice is appreciated[/QUOTE]

well u can do any of them. it all depends on if u noe wat ur guy likes. u dont have to use lube..it can just make it easier. yeaa he should be hard!
his being hard is a very good thing..it means u can pleasure him easier. it should last until he has and orgasm. and if u dont want to swallow it then thats fine. just tell him to cum somwhere else. maybe on ur stomache or something then u can wash it off later. and if u dont think u can ask him to do that..just tell him in the heat of the moment. talk dirty like wen u say it. it can help him.