Hi all, my first post here. Haven't filled out my profile yet, but I'm a 35y.o single hetero, and until now have been very conservative with sex - but I'm eager to learn...and please!
Before I put the question out, let me say I've been reading these boards, and I am SUPREMELY impressed by humour, honesty, warmth and sheer bonhomie here. Guys and girls talking together as if real life barriers never existed. The Internet is truly a boon to humanity.
Ok, in the above spirit, here's my question(s): I've never participated in oral sex, as indicated above. Now, something about giving it seems so, SO much more erotic and thrilling than penis-vagina, because it is impossible to be any closer to a woman, any more intimate with her. THIS IS IT. She has allowed you into the temple of temples, and going in orally seems far, FAR more intimate than anything you could do with the rest of you.
So, do any of you guys find it as thrilling giving? I often think - no, let me get in the spirit, I fantasise that it's so overwhelming, such an exhilarating honour to be allowed there with your mouth, that it's better than getting. Have any of you gotten so turned on BY giving that you came there and then?
My next question is for the ladies; how long would you let a guy stay down there for? Does there come a point when you're so turned on that you need him to take you? I would love to stay there for whole mornings or afternoons, stopping only for sustenance of the solid variety:)
Ha, I'm 35 yet I feel like a gauche schoolboy again with my amateurish questions! I openly admit, it's an exhilarating rush talking like this, even if 'only' on an Internet board. Perhaps when the endorphins level out I'll start making sense again!!
Look forward to chatting with you all!
Jaybee.
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Tess,
Thanks for answering my questions, and for the warm welcome!
I completely meant every word about my attitude toward going down. To me, it's the deepest trust that a woman can place in you. It's the ultimate honour to be there, because in allowing me there, she has given me her innermost being. I simply think it is impossible to be closer to woman, emotionally, than after you have spent happy hours there. I know I'm waxing lyrical, but I really feel the tie of having
On the subject of free expression, I really look forward to discussing my fantasies, preferences, methods etc, once I've marshalled my thoughts about them. That's the funny and sad thing about society; You must think about working on your home, your career, your car, and the media never lets you forget it. Now, you are also bombarded with sexual imagery, yet encouraged to THINK about your sexuality.
I'm a member of a Boxing forum, and the subject of prostate gland stimulation came up, raised by one of the two female members. Most of the (straight) guys were quick to decry such a 'homo' practice, fearing that even pressing toilet paper too hard would lead to homosexual feelings developing!
Yet a few of the guys, after the subject was being tossed back and forth, actually admitted, in the midst of the ridicule, that they enjoyed it when "she twiddles with my bottle".
Seriously though, I wish I found this place sooner!
JayBee.
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Well let me be the first to welcome you to the board, Jaybee. I just joined myself not to long ago and am having a great time.
Its very freeing to be able to say anything you want to. And the people here have all been super.
I loved the way you talked about going down on a woman with such reverence. I agree that oral sex is the most intimate thing you can do with your partner.
I am blessed to have a man that loves going down on me and will stay there for as long as I want him too. He loves eating me, using toys and doing whatever is required at the time.
Now to answer your question. Yes there totally comes a point when I can't take anymore and want him to f**k me. As for the duration well we have gone for over an hour with me having multiple orgasms.
I like it mostly in the 69 position because I am a girl that just has to have her dick. Either in my hand or in my mouth.
There lots of good post discussing different techniques on here already. But I am alway willing to advice or offer an opinion. Of which I have lots.