My girlfriend and I have had sex a few times and we are beginning to tell each other what we like and what we don't like. She has hinted a few times that she would like me to give her oral, any tips? I have also heard that it tastes bad, is that true or a myth?
Sat, 06/24/2006 - 03:04
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New to oral
Well, as for the taste, I wouldn't know cause I've never ate a girl (I am one so uh...that's just kinda odd. lol.) But the only advice I can give you is don't use just your tongue, just like most guys, we like a little mix of hands and mouth and both combined. I can't speak for other girls but that's how I like it. And also, ask her what she likes. It may be a bit odd asking her but how else is she going to enjoy it if you don't know what she likes? Just let her know that she's beautiful and if you like the taste or not, tell her she tastes good, to let her know that she is sexy and you enjoy being close to her.
Hope that helped. :D
Thank you very much, I have been kind of apprehensive about it but that eased my mind a little. If you have any more tips, I'd be glad to hear them!:)
Semen is an acquired taste. It contains sugars, proteins, and a couple of calories, yet tastes somewhat salty. Vaginal mucus is also an acquired taste. Both fluids are something we get used to over time.
Good point! Thank you dancingdoc! I was going to tell you, you and Brandye seem to have excellent advicefrom what I have read on other threads and topics! Keep up the good work and thank you!
I did it! I gave hre oral! I was suprised! I liked it! It was a turn-on to see her arching her back and breathing heavy like that!! Thanks for the advice guys!
Good going....
> she would like me to give her oral, any tips?
Here are some tips in no particular order, just what comes to mind:
* Explore and learn together and work in partnership. Making love is not what we do to each other, rather, what we do with and for each other. There is a difference.
* Know that after some time an attention has be given to her clitoris she may declare that it has become too sensitive to continue touching, directly. If/when this happens, switch tactics. You can cover the clitoris with the inner lips and stimulate it indirectly through them.
+ You can stimulate the clitoris indirectly by gently tugging on them, sucking on them, as well as fingering them.
* The clitoris can be further stimulated by rubbing the shaft. Even though it is buried beneath the skin between the folds of the upper vulva, it is all too often ignored or overlooked.
* In lieu of an actual vibrator, use your lips. We've all puckered our lips and blown air through them making the sound of an outboard motor or lawnmower. Do the same with and without sound effects by letting your lips vibrate against her clitoris and environs. You can change the speed of the vibrations, pressure, and the amount of air for varying e/affects.
* The area immediately surrounding the entrance to the vagina and that just inside are richly endowed with sensitive nerve endings. Fingering or tonguing here when she is highly aroused will do nice things for her.
* The same is true for the outside of the anus. It is also richly endowed with sensitive nerve endings that turn on and become reactive after a person has become very aroused. You might note that it puckers and forms corrogations of skin increasing the surface area! If this does happen, you know you are doing something enjoyable. Fingering or rimming the anus is good in and of itself yet is mainly beneficial because it augments the sensations from other caressess going on at the same time.
* Encourage her to give you feedback either verbal or non-verbal on what she enjoys, how she is reacting to what you are doing, and, for what she may desire--now. Based upon her reactions, you can plan you immediate strategy for what to do next.
Much of what I've mentioned holds true for you with her when it is your turn. If you want tips, let me know and I'll pass along some male specific suggestions on technique.
Enjoy!