In reading this post I feel like I just walked into the middle of an ongoing conversation. Are you asking what about lubricants and what you can use instead of commercial preparations?

If so, then try:

* Hand lotion
* Cooking oil/salad oil (Sesame, Canola, Corn oils in that order)
* a preparation of water and just a few drops of hair conditioner sufficient to make the water slippery. (Prepare a small quantity before each use)
* Hand or Body lotions (Check label and use those that contain some form of mineral oil. Do not use the "greaseless" types because they tend to be absorbed rapidly and this what you do not want)

Supermarket drug departments and pharmacies all carry one or more types of lubricants. Astroglide and K-Y are two well known brands; there are others. These are not all that expensive and are available off the shelf.

I hope this answers your question.

hrm... this is in the "pleasing her" section thus why I feel the need to ask this question. What is your gender?

female: Your body should provide all the lube you need. Some women do not for some reason. If you are part of the latter I would stick to the commercial products that are made to be used. Astroglide, K-Y, etc.

male: I've always stuck just some saliva. It's always on hand (punny huh?). Plus noone will ever question why you have lotion in your room (because you wont). You can imagine it feels like getting head if you want... just don't be suprised when it doesn't.