Im 22 and never dated/kissed/had sex with a girl. When girls come onto me now I act cool and indifferent because I'm embarrassed/scared of showing how inexperienced I am, so relationships go no where. Also, I am clueless about hitting on girls. Nothing wrong with me besides self-esteem issues. I'm also self-conscious about my hairy back so I never go swimming.I was a raised in a strict christian household in which sex was a taboo subject. I desperately want to have sex. Any advice? Thanks.
Tue, 08/16/2005 - 05:42
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New to it all.
the first thing to do when coming onto girls is be calm. no-one likes a skitty person following them. and DONT for the love of god use cheesy chat up lines. keep looking at her from across the room then go over and complement her. say 'wow, you look stunning' or something. then get talking. dont immediately say 'will you go out with me'. find some common ground to talk about. then just as you are about to leave ask her if she wants to go for a drink some time. i know this is easier said than done with self esteem issues, i have the same problem, but its good desensitization and the more you do it the more comfortable you will be with it.
if you have her over, dont rush into sex. if she doesnt want to say that you'll wait for her until she is ready.
hope this helps. best of luck
after you have the girl, romance is a key part. give her a single red rose on your first date, and then once you get to know her more or if you know her place of work and they are willing to co-operate, you could get them to deliver a red rose on the hour, every hour throughout the day. theyll fall head over heels
try that and theyll be like putty in your hands
forgot to mention, if they have a problem with your back or any other part of you then theyre not worth keeping