Alright, the first time I posted on these boards, I received help with maintaining my erection (help which worked fantasically I might add, all I had to do was relax XD). Here I am again with some new issues to discuss.
It still seems that she cannot please me. Intercourse does nothing for me, it just goes limp from lack of stimulation. She can perform oral, but it does nothing unless I masturebate to the point where I can feel the orgasm brewing in my penis. Handjobs do nothing, I receive little stimulation from anything other tahn my own hand it seems. This is frustrating, frustrating to the point that I don't want to bother to try intercourse anymore, or letting her perform oral on me without said prior masturbation. I don't want my sex life to be doomed to masturbation. I can pleasure her just fine in many ways though, the problem is for me and not her =/
well sounds like you have quite the problem. well according to what i know i can tell you that i think you may have a very unsensitive penis. sometimes men can get them and its almost impossible to get any sort of feeling out of them. ive never had sex personaly but i read about it and my gf is a genius when it comes it being about something like this. i would recomend either going to a store and asking for help to find something to help with your problem or just try to cope with it untill something happens.
going to see a local doctor might help find an answer to best suite you. Asking in a pharmacy might embarrass you a bit so a doctor would be the best place to go as they would be able to tell you what it is and what to do with it.
Well there is nothing abnormal about my penis. It was pretty much unused except for masturbation before my girlfriend.
You're probably right. It's not a new problem. It may, however, be a problem that is beyond the scope of a forum.
You couldn't stay hard, all you had to do was relax.
Now you can't accept pleasure...
I'd suggest you try relaxing, but I think there are going to be new issues if you don't get to the root.
However, I'd also point out that inexperience does not equal dysfunction. Most penises are only used for masterbation prior to having a girlfriend and sex with her. You don't automatically get "good" at something just because you start doing it and, in the case of sex, there's a lot wrapped up in the act -- one of the reasons young people are encouraged to think twice before losing their virginity.
I'm not off on a tangent. The point is the reasons for your "issue" are potentially many. Pretty hard to guess. Could be simple inexperience, could be you are fixiated on masterbation, could be...
You can try offering more information here, but a doc visit would be a good first step.